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My boyfriend said that about 2 years ago he met a woman on tinder whilst he was abroad travelling. He said they lightly flirted online but never met up.
Nowadays, she religiously likes every post on his Instagram, and she is always one of the first likers.
Does this seem odd to you guys?
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Without being defensive or rude could you demonstrate how you know for sure he’s never met or had anything with her aside from what he tells you? Tinder is usually used for hookups, and that’s how they met. What indicates that he is fully done with her?
He tells me that he never speaks to her these days and I believe him, but I don’t understand why she does this, like doesn’t she realise it’s abit odd?
So you only have his words and no proof. I’m not quite sure how that sits well with you, given the situation. No offense.
I think it would be weird if they truly have no contact with each other, which I’m having a hard time believing. The average person isn’t gonna do that.
Exactly! I have no idea why now, years later she’s religiously liking everything! I want to ask her
Are you able to see her page and activity? Or is she private?
She’s private. But, my boyfriend clicked on her page when I was there. I saw hed liked a recent picture of her, but he told me he couldn’t remember him doing it. I was pretty annoyed
So he has complete control of what you can and can’t see. You probably weren’t even meant to see that one like and he scrambled for an excuse, but already that shows he’s a liar. To say he has no ties to her yet liking her content, who knows what else there is that you can’t see. This isn’t me trying to instill doubt but I’m just being real with you — that is very suspicious.
My point here also is to have an open mind in this situation and don’t be so one-sided. You love your man and obviously you want to have his back, but in doing so it’s like you’re directing all the oddities and blame onto her when it could be him too.
That’s true. What do you think I should do now?
That’s a tough one, honestly. I’m not sure if I should suggest reaching out to her because while that’s not a bad idea, what if she tells him you contacted her? Unfortunately some women are so desperate and trifling that they will not give a single shit that he has a girlfriend. She has no ties or loyalty to you so for a person like that it’s no problem.
Fortunately her liking all his content is innocent enough as of now, so maybe this is a matter of playing the waiting game and letting the evidence find you on its own. On the other hand, whether or not he is someone you want to be with right now is questionable. He lied, point blank, and if he can lie about the small things he can absolutely keep the bigger things under wraps. It’s for you to decide if you can continue with him when you don’t necessarily have peace of mind.
Thank you!
I think you are being deceived
He seemed convincing when he said they never speak these days
If she's not cheating, what is she talking about and why does she like your pictures?
No idea, I don’t know how she doesn’t realise that it’s odd to keep liking them
I don't know either
Isn't tinder an app used for fucking?