I am all over the map when I look for women, and I need to focus?

[Anonymous]

I am REALLY attracted to older women. I've made out with a few and went on some dates, but I've generally shied away from more than that thinking I'd regret it.. Sometimes I spend time looking for older women on dating apps, but also, if I am being honest with myself, I probably want a "normal" relationship, with a family... and at this point of being 35.. scary.. I probably should not be looking much above 40 if this is what I really want...

[Avicenna]

First decide what you really want. And try to meet women younger than you if you want a family.

[RedInnocent69]

No, you need to go out into the world and meet some actual women.

[In_Trance]

So what's your question