Is going to the movies a bad first date?

[Anonymous]

[skunk3n]

Yes.

• How are you planning get to know her?
• The only thing she can relate to you is the movie quality.. it might even be a jump-scare movie, fun to be resembled to that?
• Are you planning to hold hands during cinema with zero report, would just be creepy and weird. You could as same hold hand with s stranger during cinema, of course also creepy.

[Asker]

The ending took me out 😭😂😂

[skunk3n]

Take her for a short cafeteria (at the evening).
Get to KNOW her and LISTEN to her. Trust me, she will shit-test you later, and check if you're a good listener, she needs know if she can rely on you, hopefully vomit her chaos and emotions on you. (But hey, don't see this as a bad thing, she find herself safe and comfortable with you in that case.)

After the cafeteria, if its a success, go for an activity: Mini Golf, play pool, throw darts etc.. whatever that include your possiblity to break the touch-barrier, and see if she's comfortable with you touching her. Do it with a tease.. DON'T "HEY, you stand like this (puts your hand on her ass)"..

Third thing, have FUN. Don't make it as a "this must end up with indoor Olympics, she's hot af, i have to!".
Be light hearted and have fun, without tons of Unreal expectations. You'll just be a burthurt little boy if your ego and expiations are above your head.

[Asker]

my patience is unmatched literally

[skunk3n]

Then I'm convinced you will have no prob to be in her pace.

But whatever you do, don't become a doormat or a simp!

[Asker]

😂😂

[OtterMan68]

If that's all you do, bad; can't talk. If you go to a movie then out for a drink or coffee afterwards to discuss it, that's much better.

[Asker]

I agree 👍🏼

[rachel776]

yes unless there's chemistry and you're making out in the movie theater already. otherwise you're just staring at a screen not talking to each other, which you could do by yourself at home

[HelpfulWoman]

No if its part of other activities.
first date should have lots of talking and getting to know each other. a movie doesn't allow for that

[NathanDavis]

there's only people doing bad at dates... any date

[In_Trance]

Yes I think it is