Am I supposed to return a gift I don’t want?

[736_switch_blade]

Guy who I was dating left me a necklace and an anklet for no reason…

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl that's so awkward about the gifts from that guy! Here's what I'd do:

- Typically you shouldn't feel obligated to keep gifts from someone you're no longer with. Especially since it seems the vibe between y'all fizzled.

- I wouldn't wear the jewelry - might send the wrong message if you run into him. But returning it could also be weird...

- If it was me, I'd probably message him like "Thanks for the gifts but I think it's best we don't exchange presents going forward since we aren't dating." Polite but sends the "not interested" signal.

- See what he says - if he argues or makes it a thing, that's a red flag. But hopefully he understands where you're coming from.

- Sell the pieces online or to a consignment shop if you don't wanna deal with an awkward return. At least you'd get SOME use out of them lol.

Don't feel bad either way hun! You gotta do what makes you comfortable. That's just my two cents on the sitch. You've got this girl!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Keep the gift he gave you if that's what your heart tells you?

[736_switch_blade]

No my heart tells me I’m hurt

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@736_switch_blade I'm sorry switch blade

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[DishLady]

Something that's overly personal or too expensive should not be accepted.

[elizamichale1]

Well if he gave u after u broke off then tea u shud return

[elizamichale1]

Yea*

[736_switch_blade]

Yes it was after broken up

[elizamichale1]

Then definitely honey... coz keeping it would mean u still have feelings for him n he would expect u getting back with him

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[AviatorTom]

One never returns a gift. One regifts it to someone else. Gift-giving 101.

[Billlewis]

Hell, no you shouldn't return it; he knows he's not getting any, but if he wants to spoil you and kiss your ass, let him do it. I'd do exactly the same thing if I had the chance.😘

[ProbablyClueless]

No. If you don't want it, sell it or throw it away.

[andy530]

I probably would

[MrGSpotHer]

Up to you I guess

[eagle1951]

you should