Should I force myself comitt to a guy I don’t like?

[Anonymous]

Should I force myslef comitt and date a guy that I don’t fancy , don’t give me butterflies, that i don’t want sex or kiss yet he’s a guy that does want a relationship & live together and have wife?
but you aren’t into him so it’s difficult text him everyday & force yourself like a chore?

and the guy u like a lot , is average nerdy, weird, but not sure if he’ll have a serious relationship with u, by meeting family being offical, living together? But he treats you very good& your smile is so big & you feel excitement to see him, be with him& dreaming of future together , and it’s easy text him as you are interested?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Now you know that answer to that question! Why would you even entertain the idea of doing that when you know it won't work!

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's for the MHO

[Anonymous]

No, let him find someone who actually likes and appreciates him.

[Asker]

Becuase we want the same things, so I’m confused he’s the right guy even tho I don’t like him? And just shud force myself be with him to have comitment I wanted?

[Asker]

I don’t feel butterflies, feels more like a chore like I need text him, so I’m closer to a serious relationship or being a wife

[Opinion Owner]

Let him find someone who likes and appreciates him.

[boggboss]

Sounds like a silly idea

[Asker]

Why silly?

[boggboss]

Because u are not attracted to him or like him relationshipwise

[Asker]

But people say the right guy is someone that wants the same things as u?

[boggboss]

Aswell as basic attraction and intrest u need both

[Asker]

We’ll i found guy that’s wants same things as me a relationship, babies soon, live together but I don’t like him. I don’t feel happy or desire kiss or have sex with him. It even feels like a chore to text him. Should I force mylsef comitt to him so I can finally have a first boyfriend? I neevr met a guy that likes me back that wants a relationship & future/ babies

[boggboss]

Again that's a stupid idea

[Asker]

I never in my life met someone thatlikes me back and serious wants future together.

[boggboss]

OK that doesn't mean u should settle with a guy u have no attractive interests in

[Asker]

It’s 27 years I. Never had a boyfriend or relationship. Why it’s taking so long to find my person?

[boggboss]

I wouslnt know why could be down too how u act the people u go for could be anything

[Asker]

So this guy wants the same things as me, but I’m not attracted don’t like him, yet u say I need go for someone I like but u r saying could be the people I go for?

Makes no sense.

[boggboss]

Because what u are deciding to do here is worst then being lonely its essentially growing a child in a household where their parents don't love eachother part of love is being attracted to them not being a roommate which is what u want as for why u haven't fond a guy u are attracted to I don't know u or what u do or if u approach guys so I have no ability to answer why u haven't found a guy I was simply throwing out ideas

[Anonymous]

Don't do something silly now.

[jahaims]

Why?