Should I marry a guy I don’t like don’t feel sexually attracted to?

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I’m almost 30 and never had a boyfriend. Guys I meet don’t ask to be his girlfriend. My life never progresses as men don’t want a girlfriend and only want sex which makes no sense as with a girl u can have sex daily or more.

god never gave me my soulmate, there’s just a random guy that likes me but I don’t like him back. I feel no butterflies no joy nothing for him. But I’ll need settle for him in order to finally get a boyfriend & begin my life.

I cry of misery as I thought a boyfriend was a guy that I like, and god make me wait 30 years just so I comitt to a guy that I don’t like back?

I never met a guy that I’m crazy for that has same feelings for me. It’s always one sided love where I like guy but he don’t want be my boyfriend. I guess this is my destiny this random guy that I’ll need settle for?

Maybe_Maybe_not · Accepted Answer

Short answer: Marrying a guy you're  not attracted to equals rejecting your own self . Negative effects on your mental health are guaranteed, you will suffer. Long answer: Your life has already begun, you are living, that is a fact , you seem religious or spiritual, I'm not sure, so your traditions/beliefs might disagree with my speech. But let's try,  marriage is not more life than your current life , you already live, you already feel the value of life.  What you miss is love , yes, what you miss is a bond, a connection with a soul ! And as the song says: " Everybody Needs Somebody to Love ". True story, possibly the most underrated truth of all times. Now, love strikes in a way we don't exactly understand, but  there are general principles to consider : Ask yourself this,  who do I meet?  Do I really select the guys or do I date randomly?  Who do I want , what could be a personality, some beliefs I like?  What do I want from a man?  From there, from the answers only you have, inside, then try to consider where you could meet this type of guy.  There will be answers, but you need to ask yourself the right questions  ! Do not trust fate, or randomness, find your answers and then act upon it 🙂 Good luck !

slatyb · Accepted Answer

No, you shouldn't. It's miserable being married to someone you don't love.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Accepted Answer

Sexual attraction can build if you somehow like the person in other ways. If you don't like him overall, then don't force yourself to marry. Marriage is a big commitment one has to make.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

You can love someone without being sexually attracted. Those that say otherwise are usually the kind that would or do marry for all the wrong reasons.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

No. You should take time to figure out why you can't feel sexual attraction towards men you can actually have.

DrPepper12 · Answer

You're YOUNG!!! Be patient!! Build your life for now N for yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

There's no such thing as soulmates or the one. All myths

ImAlondra · Answer

You need the emotional connection to marry

gag6474 · Answer

why are you not sexually attracted to him

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Disaster waiting to happen.

In_Trance · Answer

why would you do this

jahaims · Answer

You are too immature for a healthy relationship

Anonymous · Answer

Tried online dating or dating apps?

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