I can't be the only one who is turned off by women who prioritize a man who is a provider right?

[Anonymous]

I'm not saying it's bad to like/love providers but I just can't believe that's like number 1 or 2 on people's list of priorities. There are so many more important things. Please enlighten me if you disagree.

The other day I was talking to a girl and she said she's so down for much older or much younger as long as he's able to provide and is physically attractive. Am I the only one who thinks that is shallow? Don't get me wrong. I would love my partner to be beautiful but I would never say that like it's all I want/need. And would never take a 10/10 in looks with a 7 personality than the other way around.

Turn off/how shallow

Neutral/no big deal

Turn on/how feminine

[sethtav]

Some girls are lazy and do not want a career or work. So, they are looking for a guy to take care of them. Not sure if we call them a gold digger but I will never go out with a lazy girl with no ambition but to only be taken care of.

[Brittanyroseee]

Sounds like a gold digger🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Brittanyroseee]

I would never rely on a man to take care of me. I mean ofc i want a guy who is successful and can provide but to an extent. I don’t want to completely live off a man. I like being independent