I sleep with a guy who is more than 10 years older than me and I am depressed because he doesn't love me?

[Anastasia877]

He is 37, I am 24. He is wealthy and successful. He swept me off my feet. Tall, lean and so intelligent and confident. Charismatic also.

Came from a broken abusive household with abusive father and made it. We met last year. But he only contacts me when in my city to have sex. I started dating other boys my age but he texted me as soon as I put a photo of me and a guy online. He didn't say anything about the guy, just that he is coming to my city next day. I told that boy I am not ready to date, hoping he will stay this time. He didn't I told him last time we had sex that I love him and I need to be loved too. He said that I will need someone else to love me, because he cannot do that, he is not the person. Then turned his back on me and fell asleep. I cried myself to sleep.

One day I told him to stop reaching out when he is around, I need to move on. I thought he will reach out but he didn't. So I did it again. I cried again, didn't want to allow him to leave. He said he is not my psychologist and after a long day of deals and signing papers and all that headaches he wants a good time, not to be someone's psychologist.

I love him. He never gives me any money, so I am not a gold digger. On my birthday he just sent me a Happy birthday quick text. I bought him a book he added on Goodreads as want to read. It was really expensive. I didn't buy my mother anything because of this. He was happy, thanked me. But that was it.

What to do to make him stay? Get pregnant? I cannot love anyone else

[Booklover_90]

Don’t make a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you. He was quite clear that he doesn’t love you. Take him at his word. Please don’t make a fool of yourself. He’s not the only man in the world. Stop acting like he is. Also, getting pregnant on purpose isn’t a good idea. He’ll really not want to have anything to do with you. A man can’t stand a woman who tries to trap him. Seek therapy. Heal. Live your life. Have fun. Then seek out a (healthy) relationship. Meaning, a relationship where you don’t feel like you need the person. That’s not what a relationship is all about.

[laly520]

u need to move on

u shouldn't force anyone to love u

ig u need to go to therapy too.. seems like u have some serious attachment issues

[Anonymous]

You move on. He’s not going to stay. You’re just some tail on the side. I’m sure you’re not the only one he’s sleeping w.

[noohair]

You can't make another person love you. There is only one person you have any chance of changing and that is yourself.

[In_Trance]

Give your head a shake and move on

[Anonymous]

Dont be sad. You had good fuck with him

[dudegreat91]

Is it Mr. Grey lol