I enjoy sleeping with a guy so much older than me?

[Anonymous]

I didn't know what question title to use...
I am 21 and he is 38. Handsome and powerful. Thats what i always liked about him. His power and leading position in every business. He is divorced and has 2 daughters. I want a family and kids. I know he is not ok for me but i cannot distance myself. I see him as God although he never talks to me about anything important. He talks to some politicians from Europe but never gives me details. Like he says " it wouldn't interest you anyway" he treats me good ( he treats other people like shit) but he is nice to me. But i dont know what to do. I tried to leave a few times but always threw myself at his feet and told him i was stupid and begged take me back. I see him as God. Smart, powerful, handsome. What to do? Plus... he only visits me at night. In the morning or early afternoon he leaves.

[Anonymous]

What do you do about what? You want a life with him? Then you talk to him about it. But don't get your hopes up. It's not likely that he wants this. That's not to say he doesn't like you or enjoy spending time with you, but he has 2 kids already, so I can almost guarantee he doesn't want more. And he's divorced, while possible, not likely he wants to go through that again either. Don't get swept away here (don't ignore the reality). I don't think he sees anything serious with you. But before you get too invested in him (if you aren't already), talk to him and ask. But don't make the mistake of thinking you can change his mind or anything either, if he says he doesn't want anything serious, he means it and it will not change!

[HereIbe]

Sounds like you are just a pussy to wrap around his dick and an admiring little girl to make a pathetic loser feel good about himself.

If he won't take you out in public, you're just a convenient cunt and nothing more.

[Asker]

I idolise him and he is a very narcissic man. I just can't help. Im not happy but i cannot distance myself. I know he is divorced. I googled that shit. He is divorced.

[HereIbe]

You are nothing but a cunt for him, but cunt is probably all you ever want to be in your life. Enjoy being fucked then thrown away.

[Asker]

Why you so mean?

[HereIbe]

I'm not mean, I'm caring enough to lay it on the line with you, to tell you the FULL TRUTH so you can act on it properly. But if you would rather just be a disposable cunt, which is what you currently are, go ahead and keep on with what you're doing.

If he isn't taking you out to show off in public, you are nothing but a place to stick his dick.

[HomoFuge]

He only sees you as a booty call. Forget having a family and kids with him. This guy only values you for sex.

[Andybeach]

pretty much this

[luvstoned4him]

@HomoFuge said the same thing

[manmeat]

she should just enjoy the good attention and great sex its better than most women get!

[luvstoned4him]

he seems to be using you as a booty call. he might not even be divorced. Possibly running around.

[manmeat]

she should just enjoy the good attention and great sex :D its better than most women get!

[luvstoned4him]

@manmeat yep, while it lasts because he doesn't seem to want anything permanent.

[manmeat]

ye and he'll run a mile if she gets clingy or starts with baggage about wanting more seriouse

[luvstoned4him]

@manmeat true

[Thatsamazing]

Why do people say "sleep with" to mean sex? ↗
Second, um... okay. Is there a question here? What's the point of this post?

[Anonymous]

I think the market for good quality men is really small. Sometimes it sucks being a girl or maybe feminism ruined the strong young men from before. Sigh... dating and relationships surely suck when masculine and feminine gets messed up.

Shortage of men and women are desperate... forced equality really made an inequality in the dating scene... interesting

[runix]

It's ok to enjoy it just realize that you will never be happy being with him unless you no longer want your own family.

[Danny_dan92]

So he only see’s you at night? Why?

And he’s divorced? Why?

These are questions you need to ask him.

[HereIbe]

Or he's not actually divorced.

[luvstoned4him]

@HereIbe @Danny_dan92 I thought the same thing

[Danny_dan92]

I looked through the comments... “she googled and saw that he’s divorced” ... lmfao what a dummie

[Asker]

Why? He is well known

[Danny_dan92]

Oh. Must explain the narcissistic behavior and the man whoreish tendencies.

You’re probably just a number.

He’s the announcer at the DMV and the numbers it calls out are the different pussies it calls.

“NOW SERVING... “

[zagor]

If he treats other people like shit he probably isn't worth much anyway.

[outside_Toronto]

This won't last forever. A new reality is coming soon

[bradbradley]

If you and him are happy that's all that matters but to me I think you need more time together other then night or morning to make it work

[manmeat]

see it as it is friends with benefits :D

[Dionigi]

Ask to be his breeding hucow

[HereIbe]

If he goes for it and helps with her bills enough, maybe that could work for her.

[blondfrog]

Bon appetite then.