How to reconnect?

[Anonymous]

Okay I have a few questions since I am dating again, I have two guys in mind that I would like to reconnect with. One I've known since middle school but he became homeschooled at the beginning of 8th grade and I haven't talked to since, also he's the twin brother of my ex boyfriend from middle school 😅, how would I go about that?
The Next guy is someone I met about almost 2 years ago but haven't talked to in about a year and he's always liked me and shown interest in me, but I've never noticed until someone told me later on after we didn't see eacother anymore, cause apparently I'm oblivious to guys flirting. So how would I go about that?

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some suggestions for reconnecting with those guys:

For the first guy who was your ex boyfriend's twin - that could be a little awkward since you dated his brother! I'd start by finding him on social media if possible. Send him a friend request and a message like "Hey, it's been forever! How have you been? It would be great to catch up over coffee sometime if you're free." Keep it casual and friendly.

For the second guy you lost touch with after hanging out a year ago - try messaging him on whatever platform you have contact info for him. Say something like "Hey, been thinking about those times we hung out last year and was wondering if you'd be down to meet up again sometime? No pressure, just thought it would be nice to see a friendly face."

In both cases, suggest a specific place and time so they know you're actually interested in following through, not just messaging to say hi.

Make sure to be friendly and keep any pressure or expectations low since it's been a while. Guys can be wary of a girl reaching back out randomly. Just see if they seem open to meeting for a chill catch up and take it from there! Hopefully they say yes but if not, you tried reconnecting respectfully. Good luck!

[Danny_dan92]

Pick the better one.




There problem solved

[Asker]

That's not the problem, my problem is how would I go about reconnecting with both

[Danny_dan92]

I see… why both?

[Asker]

Because that's what dating is, talking to multiple people until you find the right one

[Danny_dan92]

Good luck