Where do the nice, good guys hang out?

[Anonymous]

What makes a female approachable but not easy and someone you would want to be in a relationship with

[DishLady]

You're asking very different sets of questions here.

1. Nice guys hang out...
2. Approachable female...
3. Relationship material...

I'm only addressing the lead question. You should repost the other two separately for proper responses since there's a cap, you know, on how long our responses can be...

Smart, good guys are home avoiding all the crazy people. They may also be found "in the wild" hanging with friends, volunteering for community services, attending an academic/religious/humanitarian/athletic type of event. They may also be the guy who is "in captivity" on the commute to and from work... A good guy can be found pretty much anywhere if you just make the effort to really look for THEM and not just the hot guys.

Nice guys, by contrast, you have to watch. They tend to be mopey "victimized" types waiting for you to pick them over the hot guys, the smart guys, the good guys... They're the male "pick me" types and also not hard to find. But being nice doesn't equate to being good...

[HawkPerception]

Most are at home, just working, being family guys, occasionally going out with friends at restaurants or bars, hitting the gym, going for runs, playing pickup sports, gaming, etc.

You can find them everywhere, but you'll never know if they're a good guy or not unless you talk to them.

All a girl needs is to be compatible and physically attractive to me. She should be approachable and smile... not just maintain a resting bitch face.

When we talk and I find out she's compatible in views, interests, way of thinking, sense of humor, etc... that's when I want to get into a relationship with her.

[Anonymous]

Where do the nice, good guys hang out? Everywhere except online dating apps.

What makes a female approachable but not easy and someone you would want to be in a relationship with? If she's warm, friendly and smiles at people, she's approachable.

If she is kind, unselfish, traditionally minded, doesn't have a promiscuous past, wants children, and has healthy attitudes toward men and relationships, she's someone a good man would want for a relationship/marriage. In other words, no feminists or modern women.

[BetaBucks]

School, work, religious places, sports leagues. You can be approachable by facing guys and making/continuing conversation. That's number 1. Everything else after that is less important, but it still helps to seem attentive and into the conversation, maintain off and on eye contact, stay light hearted and ask questions about the guy. Being easy is easy to avoid. Don't be sexual.

[lightbulb27]

church, bicycling groups, at home, grocery store, park, dirt bike track, playing sports. restaurants.

i never went to bars.

at that age, was hard to meet people other than via activities or work. need more social avenues don't we...

[HighValue]

At home playing games or at a hobby shop playing board games, or table top RPGs.

[OfMiceandMen]

On the lake/ocean, either in kayaks, canoes or on sailboats/cruisers.😜

[LiamS95]

She has to be attractive, reasonably fit, kind, outgoing, not look for just a hookup, loyal and fun yo be with.

[DrPepper12]

Bookstores, cafes, volunteers orgs, hobby groups, with you friends and in laws and neighbors

[jahaims]

With the boys, doing their hobbies or they are already taken.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

If you're only attracting the "bad ones" try changing what you're ATTRACTED TO

[gangster123]

Not on this app for sure

[Anonymous]

At home on their computers and video games

[NathanDavis]

Costco...

[MasterKS]

Relationship, no way!

[Anonymous]

School and work are easy.

[In_Trance]

Grandma's house