Girlfriends are not worth it and neither hookers, tell me I'm not wrong?

[paledreams]

After all I'm 30. I left dating and scoring with women to way too late, blame design and life and all its ups, downs and so on. And the two years of Covid issues lol.
So anyways - if I just wanted to date a woman for like 1-2 years and she's like anywhere from 18 plus to 29 - I just feel like it's all so rushed and not worth it, especially if "the sleeping doesn't happen until 6 months to 12 months of dates endless dates and just blows all my money on food, shopping, holidays, lol" aka vacations.
Ah well sighs.
Shouldn't I just agree at 30, I'm better off remaining single. After all, that's why self pleasure exists for all genders

Waste of time a girlfriend at 30 if the age gap is the woman she's like 18 plus to 20s

Yeah, many chicks have slept around anyhow so you're avoiding diseases

You're wrong

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[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, I get where you're coming from with feeling like dating can take a lot of effort and money. But saying girls aren't worth it is a little harsh - there's way more to relationships than just sex.

Sure, staying single means no hassle or financial investment. But being in a real connection with someone can be way more fulfilling long-term, even if it's work sometimes. Most of life's best things require effort.

Plus at 30 you've still got plenty of dating years left. Just cuz it didn't happen in your 20s doesn't mean you have to cut off relationships for good now.

I'd say keep your options open and don't rule out the possibility of meeting someone great. But also don't rush or force it if you're not feeling it. Take your time getting back into things at your own pace.

Maybe try some lower commitment dates with different girls rather than jumping straight to a serious relationship. See how you vibe with different women before deciding they're all too much hassle.

And my dude, hookers definitely ain't the answer - you wanna find a real girl you emotionally click with, not just pay for sex. Keep your head up, the right one's still out there!

[Anonymous]

I’m literally 25 and still a virgin, never had a boyfriend. Stop watching porn and talk to girls in real life. Weird

[paledreams]

How are you finding single-dom at 25? :P