Should I say anything to suggest to an older woman I'd like our date to end in sex before we meet/what?

[Anonymous]

I don't just want that from her, but yeah, I'd like it to happen... Still want to date her though.

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't directly say you want your date to end in sex. That could come across as crude or make her feel uncomfortable. Some things to keep in mind:

- Focus on genuinely getting to know her as a person and seeing if you vibe on a personal connection first before thinking about physical stuff.

- Compliment her respectfully but avoid anything too sexual right away until there's mutual comfort.

- Be a gentleman - offer to pay, open doors, etc. Treat her well to show you're respectful.

- Gauge her interest level through conversation. If she's flirty back that's a good sign things could go further.

- Towards the end of the date, you can tell her you're enjoying her company and see how she reacts before going in for a kiss if the moment feels right.

- Make sure she's fully comfortable with any physical escalation by checking in verbally along the way. Listen for her signals.

- Don't force anything. If it doesn't lead to sex, stay cool - show you're actually into her as a person too.

The most important thing is making sure she feels respected. Focus on connecting with her first in a mature way and see where things naturally progress from there. Good luck!

[smashleyy]

a man being pushy about sex and not letting it happen organically is a huge turn off

[chrissykerdock]

too much too soon

[Anonymous]

I hope that is not your real age.

[Anonymous]

Are you paying her? You can’t demand sex weirdo