I can't understand what he thinks?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend and i talk like once in a day and that too sometimes never happens cause our schedules don't match up
he is more of a romantic, always professing his love for me and saying that i am perfect for him and he feels happy whenever he sees me but at times it seems like a lie

to me, it feels like he likes the idea of love and romance way more than me

he asks me to confess in every conversation we have, and tbh its not even a conversation, its just confessing love and sweet talk

we never ask how our day went or if there was something interesting in our lives, it doesn't feel like he cares about me

so i'm just not sure what is going on with his thought process, is it me he loves or does he just want someone to accompany him and be there for him?

[ohsheeT]

You have to understand that you are probably way more mature than he is you probably understand the meaning of Love way better than he does you probably have experienced that at home through family because we only can give the amount of love that we have experienced..

Most guys think that making Love is Love that's how much they love that person because they don't understand what love really is or how unconditionally it is and what it truly means..

I can tell you this when a boy actually really falls in love with you you're going to know it just by the things he says and does for you not with you not to you but for you.

The way he randomly just takes your hand and starts walking with you the way he spontaneous it just pulls you close into him and looks deep into your eyes and says something stupid or something sweet

You will feel that energy when you're on the phone miles apart you will feel that energy like he's right there with you..

Most guys his age are in a relationship to say that they're in a relationship with a certain person or trying to get into that person's pants so they can put another notch on their belt buckle to show how many people they are a stud when really all they are is a dud.. ... I hate to be the one to say this but I know it's true but in time this relationship will pass and you'll both get into other ones and those ones might pass and you'll get into other ones is learn as much as you can with him understand him read his eyes when he talks to you read his body language read the tone of his voice that way the next time you get into a relationship you'll understand that person a little bit deeper and yourself I think... You are a lot more mature than he is and you know what you want are you know what you think you want and there's nothing wrong with that but there's no telling what he's thinking and that's the only person that can do that or know that is you just by listening being quiet let him use his words and listen to him because no matter what he's saying positive or negative he will also save the same positive or negative in the same sentence
I'm trying to say is if he's lying to you about something he will tell you the truth in the same sentence if you listen and that's with anything in life listen pay attention people will tell you anything and everything about them if you listen

[Asker]

Your opinion was really helpful
In ways and times we often forget the certain subtleties that we need to take note of, and as rightly said the body language shows the lies and the truths that we hide.
Again, I'm really grateful for your opinion
Hope you have a great day ahead

[ohsheeT]

Thank you yes really our mouth and speaks words is the worst communicator LOL if you pay attention you can read everything about a person everything on a person's body is speaking to you the same time the mouth is moving and will tell you everything...

And if he does lie to you he's going to tell you the truth in the same sentence if you don't say anything the more quieter you are the more he'll talk and the more he'll tell you things that he probably shouldn't tell you but you have to be quiet and listen.

When the guy really really likes you he's going to call you all the time he's going to be a nightmare LOL but I mean that in a good way you will always want to be around you you will always want to do things with you you will always want to hold your hand look deep into your eyes that's because he's truly truly likes you if a guy seems distance and he's there only when you're there that would tell me something