I don’t understand him?

[Anonymous]

I went out with this guy a few times and they all went well and he seemed to really like me. But it’s been a month because he was out of town and when he came back he immediately asked to hang out that weekend, but then couldn’t go out because he was sick. He always would text good morning and good night and ask about how I was etc and suddenly how he doesn’t ever since he apologized for not being able to hang.

I snapped him if he wanted to still hangout and he just sent back a picture of his face no words. I don't know if he just didn’t see it or why he’s acting different. I know on the day he apologized he said he had needed a mental break from people and work so I’m not sure if he just needs space or something. It makes me really sad because I really liked him and he really seemed to like me (it seemed like he even liked me more than I did him, but I still showed that I was interested I wasn’t hiding my feelings).

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And he like snaps me just as regularly as he used to he just doesn’t send messages really the last 4 days even to respond to me he usually just sends a regular snap.

[lightbulb27]

better off sending smoke signals than using the worse than stupid dumb phone. use the call feature and clear up the confusion...

There's a reason humans evolved to talk rather than text... you are adding layers of confusion on top of layers of emotional complexity relating to someone. so talk, it's better... and in person.

[Guy13]

We don’t understand us or why we do those things. 🤷🏻‍♂️