What should I do if I feel very stuck in life?

[Anonymous]

The summer is ending and I’m really not looking forward to school starting. I’m having trouble making my schedule and don’t even like the program I’m in. I feel very lonely during the winter and get sad that I can’t find a man that Is a valid option to be with and see myself dating. I also got really hurt by a guy In the beginning of the summer. He lied and manipulated me for a year thinking we had something real but to him it wasn’t. I saw him at the club with another girl and the day before he was texting me and talking to me. He ignored me the whole night and for some reason even after all that I still think about him and wish he’d text me. I just feel like if I left my city to be somewhere else for 6 months I would feel better but it’s not realistic because I don’t have money. I’m also struggling to find a job that I can do and get hire. Any advice to help me in any of these categories I just want to feel like there growth in my life and I have goals but I just don’t know what to do or goals that I’d actually enjoy and how do I put my ego aside and move on from this man because now I just feel like I’m never going to find anyone :( I’m 20 years old and feel like life is flying by and I’m just not moving 😔

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo girl, it sounds like you been through it lately! That dude for real played you bad, I'd be messed up about it too. But yo, you so young still! Don't waste your energy trippin over some fool that ain't worth it.

Maybe take a step back from school and work stuff til your head clears up. Do little things each day that make you happy, even just small wins like your fave coffee or show. Hang with friends too, laugh and have fun - forget bout dudes for now.

Also maybe just get outta your regular area for a change of scenery - even just daytrips somewhere new on weekends til you feel ready for a longer move. Fresh air does good!

And don't stress too hard finding a "purpose" overnight. You feel stuck cause that's normal at our age, just go with the flow and opportunities will come. Travel or volunteer work could be a cool experience too if money's tight.

Chin up girl! Better things ahead, you too fly to be down on yourself. This too shall pass - you got this!

[Anonymous]

These are on YouTube for free sometimes, there's Part 1 Ultimate Edge day 1-3, Part 2 Personal Power day 1-7 and Part 3 Get the Edge day 1-7, a total of 17 videos.

There's also a workbook at https://www.wellbeingwithease.com/support-files/ultimate-edge-journal.pdf

This will get you unstuck.

[CuriousHubby]

Well you will always have those feelings! Take time and heal you got hurt really bad.

Felling stuck is not the same as being stuck! Your still living moving forward!

Maybe get a part time job you might like! Take a break from school or try a new fun elective!

Those feelings will fade