Men, how do you want to be approach?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Here’s a crazy thought lol I’m no being a jerk, but just come up, say hi. If you’re cute there’s a very good chance he will continue the conversation w you. Even if you’re not the cutest men will still talk to you a majority of the time. If he’s not interested more than likely he will politely say so. Men believe it or not are a lot nicer than you think. Many of us don’t get attention from women, especially that 80% of men who women find unattractive. I’m not going to scream sexual harassment if you say hi to me then complement me on my shirt or something just cause I find you physically unattractive. That’s what a lot of women do. A lot of men are more than happy to engage w women. We just don’t always because it’s men who are the ones who are getting hit w sexual assault, rape accusations. I’m not saying that doesn’t happen, but a majority of the time it doesn’t. So many of us don’t approach because you never know which girl is going to go down that route. Safer just to stay away. But just say hi.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Absolutely you should approach even though it’s scary. What if you’re rejected, what if you’re not rejected but it ends later on, etc. Look, someone has to make the first move especially if you’re in a situation where you may never see this person again this is your one shot. At the end of the day if you’re rejected not only to you have closure you’ll never wonder what could have been, you also won’t be wasting your time on someone whose not even into you.

It’s fine to flirt a little bit to test the waters, see if he catches on, and if he bites go ahead and ask. But just approach introduce yourself be direct. Just tell him if you find him handsome or whatever the case may be. Tell him. Ask him if he’s got a girlfriend see if he wants to exchange numbers and meet up sometime just for coffee or something.

I don’t ever really approach strangers but if he’s someone you know and like. Well…. I would just go for it.

Quidthonian · Answer

In an casual, non-threatening, friendly way, appropriate to the situation. Just start a conversation.
As an example from real life: I am in Poland (where English is not the official language, but is widely spoken and understood), I was loudly mumbling "Feta, Feta, where do they hide their feta cheese" to myself. A woman responded to that in English, pointing me to the shelf. This was a single-exchange, but you could extend that by asking what are my plans for this type of cheese. See if I respond and take it from there, slowly increasing the level of interest, while allowing the other person to leave the converastion without any pressure.

jeremy_09 · Answer

Men will take any approach you want to give them. If they aren't interested, they'll politely say no thank you. Women are very specific about approaches they want, and all of them are different. Some don't mind just walking up to them on the street, others only want to be approached by guys they already know, some don't want to be approached at all. So it's very tricky.

Pohjolan · Answer

Don't worry about it. Firstly we mostly get approached by women who are not interested in us so its not like you would be making a move or something.

Secondly men are not intimidated by women the same way women are intimidated by men.

Thirdly if he is into you then it doesn't matter if you are approaching him dressed as a jester while carrying a night stand to ask him about aliens.

Lionman95 · Answer

I don´t want to be approached or at least I don´t want a girl to ask me out for a relationship what she could do though is that she starts to iniate the contact. That would help to realise that she´s at least open for a relationship with me.

normalice · Answer

I suppose sit near me, comment on whatever I'm doing, and slowly shift the conversation to blowjobs.

DrPepper12 · Answer

DIRECTLY BOLDLY CONFIDENTLY We love that!! Totally validating, ego boost and will guarantee a favorable view of you. Stop the coy hints - it's really old and annoying.

Yannae · Answer

Just treat me like a normal person. As if we're friends. Not "You're hot" "Can I kiss you". That's creepy talk. Then the small talk. Don't. I don't like it at all :(

dudegreat91 · Answer

If you're good looking, then come up to me, strike conversation, touch my biceps, chest, and body in general

thearchjoker · Answer

More context please

jahaims · Answer

Come up say hi, who you are and your intentions

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Come up say hi to from there

Anonymous · Answer

Say hi. Be nice and genuine.

Anonymous · Answer

Genuinely.

Anonymous · Answer

Stay away

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