Rejected me got a boyfriend still mad?

[Anonymous]

Everytime I see this I just think to myself did she just want a boyfriend just to have one or actually interested in me. Maybe trying to be the one girl to reject me since I’m pretty much the only one who just works and goes home. No drama doesn’t talk to anyone I will admit I’m slow on the approach but by time I get the guts to seems like the girl is talking with another man. So I just let it go couple days go by I’m just walking and she moves away like I’m already on the other side of the hallway. I don’t understand why they get upset they got the guy they wanted you wanted a boyfriend you got one.

[_Maya_]

What is the problem? She got the guy she wanted and doesn't fawn all over you now? I really don't know what the issue you have is. She found someone and now doesn't pay attention to you and this is an issue? Is that what I'm getting out of this post? Let it go. She is happy and in a relationship so that is your cue to move on and leave her to her boyfriend. It doesn't matter how she treats you. You should not care. She rejected you. You also don't really explain what she is mad about. There is a lot of missing context to this situation. Best advice is move on with your life and don't dwell on this girl. She clearly doesn't have any interest if she rejected you and now in a relationship.

[Asker]

Never said she was crazy about me I have my reasons to why I don’t approach but it seems like the only reason she could be upset is because I made a fool of her like made her look stupid I was paying attention but didn’t do anything she got what she wanted so no reason to have hard feelings moving to the other side of the hallway when you see someone coming obviously have a issue but moving on thanks.

[DishLady]

Sounds like she moved on bc she HAD to, not because she WANTED to. It's like expecting a robust chocolate cake and getting a sugar free pudding instead.

Maybe stop being so self-centered (obsessing about your own slow-moving shyness) and understand how SHE is feeling because you chose not to make any move.

And is this guy actually a boyfriend or is she just dating him?

[Asker]

Usually when you see a guy and women walking talking together that’s what it is so I just stopped paying attention I usually just ignore women at work but since I started to notice every time she is always around I decided I might entertain it yes I did want to talk to her because she seemed like she was genuinely interested and I didn’t want her to be doing all that for nothing but talking to women isn’t in my skill set so I was hesitant knowing I would just mess it up and I would break my rule not talking to women at work especially in a situation where I know the attraction might be mutual.

[thearchjoker]

so what are you asking

[Asker]

Why the hostility if you weren’t interested in me in the first place since it didn’t take long to get a guy but hey it’s over now so moving on.

[Anonymous]

I have no idea what you are mad about.

[HumbleDragon]

On to the next one bud