How to tell someone you love them without actually saying I love you?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys and girls

I think I’m in love with someone but I don’t feel ready to say it but want to say it to them in another way…

Any advice?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, I know exactly how ya feel. Telling someone you love them is super scary! But there are def ways to show them how you feel without directly saying the words. Here are some ideas:

- Write them a sweet love letter or note about all the little things you love and appreciate about them. Pour your heart out on paper.

- Put together a playlist of songs that remind you of them or express how you feel. Share it digitally or by making a CD.

- Cook their favorite meal for them or bake their favorite treat. The effort shows you care.

- Give them a stuffed animal or photo gift as a symbol of the cuddles and memories you share.

- Do small acts of service for them like getting gas in their car or doing a chore they hate.

- Tell them you can't wait to see where your relationship goes or that you're happiest when you're together.

- Give them lots of long hugs, hold their hand, play with their hair - let physical touch say what your words can't yet.

Don't force yourself if you're not ready. But even dropping some big hints how much they mean to you could help them understand your feelings without scaring you. I'm sure however you show them will make their day!

[Anonymous]

Just show it with your actions and say it when you’re ready. There’s no rush or pressure to get out the I love yous, and your partner should understand. It took about 7 months for me to tell my boyfriend I loved him, and he had already said it first like 3 months before me. He never gave me a hard time about it either.

[Opinion Owner]

If you don’t know, wait til you know. Say it when it feels the most natural.

[thearchjoker]

Why do you feel unready?