What is your way to say I love you without saying "I love you"?

[OKrts98]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There are lots of things I can think of.

But I can remember of one occasion that in my mind truly showed that I loved him, during the pandemic, when China locked down, he lost his job, I went to my country for two weeks and got stuck there.

I had last few thousands of savings, and I ha lost my job as well. I had to help my family and myself as well.

Our apartment’s rent was due back in China, I was worried if he had anything to eat at all, because China was in a total lockdown mode at that time, I lied to him that my company was paying for our penthouse, instead gave my last savings to pay for 6 months of his apartment so that he would have enough time to find a job without worrying about a place to stay.

But I could never tell him that I did that, because he was extremely proud to ask help and would rather live on streets than accept help from me. He always wanted to be the one to contribute and to be the one to be the provider. I didn’t want to hurt the feeling of his honor.

He broke up with me 2 years later from that, but I have never once told him that I did that, even when we were angry and told each other some hurtful things, I still cared about his pride.

I think the manifestation of my love wasn’t the act of paying itself, of course I should have helped him, instead what showed my love - was the fact, that even when I had nothing, I was ready to give, and when he chose to hurt me, even when I was very angry at him, I never ever told him that I did that, because I still cared to not hurt his pride even after he hurt mine.

So, in a way, doing something just because you love them, instead of doing something just to make them see how much you love them - I guess that was my way to show love, to always be there for him, even when he had no idea about that.

[Beatrix7]

look at him in the eyes and touch his face very slowly stroke his cheeks slowly smile and say things like you have beautiful eyes your a nice guy u have a lovley smile put both my palms kneck after stroking his cheeks down to his kneck hold his cheecks and pull his face forward and kiss him and say your beautiful but this has to be a guy that loves me to and not hurt me be the special guy to give me the love av hoped for beautiful looking man with a heart to never never let go of not a cheating prick who has never deserved the love i have givin him in the passed that would be my way of telling him i love him without saying it

[DaveJord]

Good question, I guess this drives at love langue. The things you do and the actions you take without saying anything, just because you love them. Cooking a meal, not saying things in a way that is hurtful, being affectionate... even something as simple as holding hands or snuggling on the couch.

So when I love someone, I tend to listen to them and try not to challenge their personal even when I disagree, I still respect them. So for me the number 1 thing a woman can do to show her love to me, is through her ability to respect our differences, more than our similarities and remain kind, generous and respectful.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would probably say something to her that says how much I appreciate her in my life or expresses how I feel about her and the way she makes me feel (so like an indirect approach to saying I love her):

1) "Just being with you makes me the luckiest and happiest man alive."

2) I would put her hand on my chest and say "This heart never knew what a true connection is until I met you."

3) "Before today, I just lived my life day to day, now that I'm with you, I think about what's to come."

And, obviously, holding hands and physical touch that lets her know how I feel.

[razelove]

Hmm, probably the easiest way for a guy is by telling a woman you want to put babies in her.

[pervertedjester]

Roasting and teasing my girlfriend about everything, expecting the same in return. I only tease the ones I like and only Roast my loved ones.

[Hinaaaaa]

Lol same

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach & as for me I’m a sucker for brownies, cupcakes or anything like that. On the other hand the love of my life is out there & if her & I happen to make magic I would say I love you with a pizza.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Hopefully the pizza is delicious too.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@PBandJ_Nerd The pizza better be delicious if not it’s not a good start for a relationship.

[PizzaDaddyo]

Achieved boner do anything?


Well, what do you know? Is that a Samsung remote in my pocket or am I just happy to see you?


A better answer is that if im very quite and doing my best not to stare but can’t help it and do it anyways I’m falling for you. This is exactly what I got through in my head looking at a crush. Hopefully this pattern helps 👀😍😅😵‍💫🥵, look away break lol, 👀🥵😵‍💫😅😍,😐(I try not to over react and play it cool)

[Andres77]

Waking her up with coffee in bed. Stopping by her work and bringing her coffee and a cinnamon roll. Leaving a bottle of new perfume in her purse so she’ll find it sometime during the day (all ex wife).

changing my schedule to make time for my daughters. Bringing them chocolate when they’re on their period. Letting them pick the movie (even if I don’t like the genre). Checking on them so I know they’re okay (daughters).

[mikan_galena]

Goodbye and hello hugs/kisses


When standing up to go to the kitchen: lift their water bottle to see if it’s empty, ask if they need anything

When leaving the house: Wallet, phone, keys?

[CAPLOVE]

My love language is words of affirmation. So I'll complement my friends, family, and boy I like or am dating to show them I care for them and love them.

[crossdressingrihno]

Compliments or a small bit of touching.
I think the important thing is jut making sure that they know that you’re thinking about them and still love them.

[itsalyssaagain]

When I’m there for someone in the hardest times. Im very much a ride or die if I love you and you can tell.

[Siri137]

I just say, "I love you". Why do anything else?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Siri137. So female. Just showing up is all the effort you make.

[Siri137]

@KrakenAttackin With someone like you, someone who is always grumpy, I wouldn't even bother. Toxic people I try to stay well clear of, because I just don't need them in my life.

[sheenagwapa]

the only being i love is Jesus... i try to do his will and discipline myself

[Simslover92]

I say I love you. I don't have a way of saying it without saying it.

[nolabels]

My "love language" is by way of providing services as I am able to do so.

[strateguy632]

this is a bad idea. if you feel it say it first, WITH words, then support with actions.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Having him rest on my lap and play with his hair.

[MementoMori777]

Te amo

[Z1pTD]

Lol throwback

[MementoMori777]

I'm bringing these old memes back lol

[Z1pTD]

This is the way

[MementoMori777]

This is the way

[tfan1]

Besides saying I love her to my wife, I give a kiss to her clitoris before I use the bullet sized vibrator on her clitoris 🙂

[stoicity]

Hey you need something? You good? You know you can always share with me right? I'm all ears, Let me cook for you, Let's go for shopping, trekking and game night, and etc..

[SnowedIn]

Bring her coffee without being asked.

[andreasderjuengere]

My way is to NOT say this schmaltzy slogan :)