What is your way to say I love you without saying "I love you"?

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LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

There are lots of things I can think of.

But I can remember of one occasion that in my mind truly showed that I loved him, during the pandemic, when China locked down, he lost his job, I went to my country for two weeks and got stuck there.

I had last few thousands of savings, and I ha lost my job as well. I had to help my family and myself as well.

Our apartment’s rent was due back in China, I was worried if he had anything to eat at all, because China was in a total lockdown mode at that time, I lied to him that my company was paying for our penthouse, instead gave my last savings to pay for 6 months of his apartment so that he would have enough time to find a job without worrying about a place to stay.

But I could never tell him that I did that, because he was extremely proud to ask help and would rather live on streets than accept help from me. He always wanted to be the one to contribute and to be the one to be the provider. I didn’t want to hurt the feeling of his honor.

He broke up with me 2 years later from that, but I have never once told him that I did that, even when we were angry and told each other some hurtful things, I still cared about his pride.

I think the manifestation of my love wasn’t the act of paying itself, of course I should have helped him, instead what showed my love - was the fact, that even when I had nothing, I was ready to give, and when he chose to hurt me, even when I was very angry at him, I never ever told him that I did that, because I still cared to not hurt his pride even after he hurt mine.

So, in a way, doing something just because you love them, instead of doing something just to make them see how much you love them - I guess that was my way to show love, to always be there for him, even when he had no idea about that.

Beatrix7 · Accepted Answer

look at him in the eyes and touch his face very slowly stroke his cheeks slowly smile and say things like you have beautiful eyes your a nice guy u have a lovley smile put both my palms kneck after stroking his cheeks down to his kneck hold his cheecks and pull his face forward and kiss him and say your beautiful but this has to be a guy that loves me to and not hurt me be the special guy to give me the love av hoped for beautiful looking man with a heart to never never let go of not a cheating prick who has never deserved the love i have givin him in the passed that would be my way of telling him i love him without saying it

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Good question, I guess this drives at love langue. The things you do and the actions you take without saying anything, just because you love them. Cooking a meal, not saying things in a way that is hurtful, being affectionate... even something as simple as holding hands or snuggling on the couch.

So when I love someone, I tend to listen to them and try not to challenge their personal even when I disagree, I still respect them. So for me the number 1 thing a woman can do to show her love to me, is through her ability to respect our differences, more than our similarities and remain kind, generous and respectful.

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

I would probably say something to her that says how much I appreciate her in my life or expresses how I feel about her and the way she makes me feel (so like an indirect approach to saying I love her):

1) "Just being with you makes me the luckiest and happiest man alive."

2) I would put her hand on my chest and say "This heart never knew what a true connection is until I met you."

3) "Before today, I just lived my life day to day, now that I'm with you, I think about what's to come."

And, obviously, holding hands and physical touch that lets her know how I feel.

razelove · Answer

Hmm, probably the easiest way for a guy is by telling a woman you want to put babies in her.

pervertedjester · Answer

Roasting and teasing my girlfriend about everything, expecting the same in return. I only tease the ones I like and only Roast my loved ones.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Some say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach & as for me I’m a sucker for brownies, cupcakes or anything like that. On the other hand the love of my life is out there & if her & I happen to make magic I would say I love you with a pizza.

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

Achieved boner do anything?

Well, what do you know? Is that a Samsung remote in my pocket or am I just happy to see you?

A better answer is that if im very quite and doing my best not to stare but can’t help it and do it anyways I’m falling for you. This is exactly what I got through in my head looking at a crush. Hopefully this pattern helps 👀😍😅😵‍💫🥵, look away break lol, 👀🥵😵‍💫😅😍,😐(I try not to over react and play it cool)

Andres77 · Answer

Waking her up with coffee in bed. Stopping by her work and bringing her coffee and a cinnamon roll. Leaving a bottle of new perfume in her purse so she’ll find it sometime during the day (all ex wife).

changing my schedule to make time for my daughters. Bringing them chocolate when they’re on their period. Letting them pick the movie (even if I don’t like the genre). Checking on them so I know they’re okay (daughters).

mikan_galena · Answer

Goodbye and hello hugs/kisses When standing up to go to the kitchen: lift their water bottle to see if it’s empty, ask if they need anything  When leaving the house: Wallet, phone, keys?

CAPLOVE · Answer

My love language is words of affirmation. So I'll complement my friends, family, and boy I like or am dating to show them I care for them and love them.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Compliments or a small bit of touching. I think the important thing is jut making sure that they know that you’re thinking about them and still love them.

Simslover92 · Answer

I say I love you. I don't have a way of saying it without saying it.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

When I’m there for someone in the hardest times. Im very much a ride or die if I love you and you can tell.

Siri137 · Answer

I just say, "I love you". Why do anything else?

sheenagwapa · Answer

the only being i love is Jesus... i try to do his will and discipline myself

strateguy632 · Answer

this is a bad idea. if you feel it say it first, WITH words, then support with actions.

nolabels · Answer

My "love language" is by way of providing services as I am able to do so.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Having him rest on my lap and play with his hair.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Te amo

tfan1 · Answer

Besides saying I love her to my wife, I give a kiss to her clitoris before I use the bullet sized vibrator on her clitoris 🙂

stoicity · Answer

Hey you need something? You good? You know you can always share with me right? I'm all ears, Let me cook for you, Let's go for shopping, trekking and game night, and etc..

SnowedIn · Answer

Bring her coffee without being asked.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

My way is to NOT say this schmaltzy slogan :)

Jadenrae · Answer

My man likes different foods from all over the world so I learn to make something he would like and give it to him. Always makes him feels special and loved and not everyone can cook well especially food from all different cultures

exitseven · Answer

There is no way to do this. You need to go big or go home.

Clyde_123 · Answer

If I do something he really likes. Because I want to make him happy.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I come up behind her, wrap my arms around her , hug her and kiss her neck as I'm standing behind her

Luopio27 · Answer

Being a great listener by showing real intrest in his/her world of intrests.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I lub you! Luv, live, whatever can be played off as a typo. You complete me!

Anonymous · Answer

I clean his apartment and cook for him. When I really love a guy I also tend to initiate a lot of sex and sexual things.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I give my parents a hug randomly sometimes.

Justaguyagain · Answer

"i bought ice cream"

Agape93 · Answer

If I make something for you.

MrCommodore · Answer

I left the toilet seat down for you

iiinsOMNIA · Answer

Thank you for being born

LavLavLuv · Answer

I made this for you because you like it

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I help them bury the evidence…

YourExLover69 · Answer

I see you more than friend Or you are my future

smilelots · Answer

Just do things for her to show the love.

Samantha_17 · Answer

I kiss him in the lips :)

Twalli · Answer

Why wouldn't you just say it?

мадина · Answer

Just love me like a baby..

Engin12 · Answer

touch kiss have sex

slatyb · Answer

Té amo.

Kkoalalita · Answer

Offering to help

Anonymous · Answer

You are Mine.

Pterodon · Answer

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Aphrodite01 · Answer

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