He asked me, 'What are your intentions with me?' - what is the best way to answer?

[Anonymous]

I am interested in this guy, we've met under 5 times but things seem to be going well. I would be interested in getting into a relationship with him but I think straight up saying 'I want to be in a relationship with you' will not be the effective answer. This would remove the chase aspect which men tend to love, and also I can't know for sure this is how he feels currently. Therefore saying this could put me at risk of rejection and or him losing a little interest.

I want to say something along the lines of 'I want to see you more, maybe this could go somewhere if we continue to get along'. Truthfully I want to get my message across but at the same time show that I am a person of value without desperation.

Any suggestions?

[MartinMarinov]

Its not what you say, you both need to losen up and get more direct with eachother emotionaly and physically. Hug, Kiss etc. Everything else gonna fall in place.

[tomd93]

Say what you mean and then add a tease. "I'd say you're boyfriend material but that would be too easy hehe *wink*" or your own version

[Anonymous]

Tell him the truth. Tell him that you really want to be exclusive with him, however you want to take things slow

[yahfromaz]

That whole idea about the chase you have is BS. If I am asking whst you want, I want the truth and not games. Just be truthful with him.