I have asked a couple of my woman friends for pics of their feet, and a few have sent them without an argument. I totally get it... NOT everyone wants to, which is completely okay.
Saying that it "isn't that type of relationship" doesn't help and varies between women.
Saying it "should be kept in the bedroom" varies. Liking women's feet is cool... it is at the low end of the kink spectrum and is okay to mention.
I have tried meeting this need in numerous other ways BEFORE going to friends.
I have sought out a girlfriend. That journey has been difficult. It isn't that simple.
No... I am not meeting strangers to get action with their feet... which is possibly illegal.
It is just ridiculous... No, they don't have to do ANYTHING, but it is still a fucking need. I have a normal life beyond that, but I should not be labeled an "opportunist predator" for asking ADULT WOMEN WHO I KNOW for feet pics... regardless of us being friends or in a relationship. It isn't to threaten our relationship as friends. They can simply say "no." I make my approach honestly and WITHOUT FORCE or SHAME, and I respect whichever answers they give me. That is okay and is to be normalized.
It's easy to say that nobody is "owed" anything, which is true... but especially easy
to say when you have a social silver spoon in your mouth. You get a little upset when John across town gets all the feet he wants... You get a little upset when you keep hearing that two letter word "NO" CONSISTENTLY. Don't shame or judge me for my pain in different areas of my life. It hurts to be told no almost all of the time.
No, I am not a "niceguy." Not an "incel." I am just a (sometimes) frustrated young man with a lot of drives and needs that just aren't met in the ways that I think that they should be... In the way that I strongly desire. I love my beautiful, kind woman friends... Girl friends? However you say it. I really appreciate them as people, but I need this. It shouldn't threaten our relationship. Don't judge.
Saying that it "isn't that type of relationship" doesn't help and varies between women.
Saying it "should be kept in the bedroom" varies. Liking women's feet is cool... it is at the low end of the kink spectrum and is okay to mention.
I have tried meeting this need in numerous other ways BEFORE going to friends.
I have sought out a girlfriend. That journey has been difficult. It isn't that simple.
No... I am not meeting strangers to get action with their feet... which is possibly illegal.
It is just ridiculous... No, they don't have to do ANYTHING, but it is still a fucking need. I have a normal life beyond that, but I should not be labeled an "opportunist predator" for asking ADULT WOMEN WHO I KNOW for feet pics... regardless of us being friends or in a relationship. It isn't to threaten our relationship as friends. They can simply say "no." I make my approach honestly and WITHOUT FORCE or SHAME, and I respect whichever answers they give me. That is okay and is to be normalized.
It's easy to say that nobody is "owed" anything, which is true... but especially easy
to say when you have a social silver spoon in your mouth. You get a little upset when John across town gets all the feet he wants... You get a little upset when you keep hearing that two letter word "NO" CONSISTENTLY. Don't shame or judge me for my pain in different areas of my life. It hurts to be told no almost all of the time.
No, I am not a "niceguy." Not an "incel." I am just a (sometimes) frustrated young man with a lot of drives and needs that just aren't met in the ways that I think that they should be... In the way that I strongly desire. I love my beautiful, kind woman friends... Girl friends? However you say it. I really appreciate them as people, but I need this. It shouldn't threaten our relationship. Don't judge.
