Please help me I feel so guilty? When everything was going well, he suddenly broke up (the day before he left me, kissed me we hugged andslept?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend was a bit of narcissist when something happened, according to him, I was always wrong, even if I wasn’t wrong, i would apologize. We had a fight. He wanted to break up. after we talked and solved. and he met with his friend, his friend said to him;u are not the old u are unhappy. and that night he says to me"Let's finish im unhappy"i begged again said i'll change. in new year we slept together, there was no problem on Wednesday we slept together and hugged meWe were fine on Thursday, he is started to get cold andHe went to meet his friend and he said to me''im not thinking about serious things like getting married you and I are of different minds. i want to leave, if I continue, I'll be deceiving u, u won't even remember me for a week, you made me this way, i don't have any love for you". i said,"We were together 2 days ago you kissed and hugged? he said;They're just habits i don't want to be loyal to one person for the rest of my life i don't want anyone for a while"I said,"You said you wanted to marry me (our last fight, he told me that if you get better, this relationship will go to marriage) He said to me;They were just messages i was actually planning to leave before Christmas but you had plans i didn't want to spoil it. If so, why didn't you break up with me instead of hugging and loving me when we met yesterday and hugged kissed? he said to me,"How you have no pride? i say i dont love, i dont want you but u still insist''i was crying and he laughed at me, got angry and said "you cry like a child at everything' even then he accused me of this (he is leo) i covered my face with my hands and was crying. He said I've been like this for the last 4-5 months Now it's your turn. he said to me'If u have a little pride, don't text me ever.'Ididn't make a sound, i was crying. Then he said'Did you hear"I nodded, then got out of the car, without saying anything. He said to me Yes u were okay u didn't make a mistake, but this time I want to finish it

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we were together for 2 years

[Guy13]

Clearly this man is not well balanced in his thinking and doing. He is certainly not deserving of you.

Imagine if you told a parent or sibling about this…. what would their reaction be towards his behavior? I imagine their reaction would be more animated than my “get out” and be safe.

[jorfan3]

It sounds like he isn't consistent in his messages, and he will be back, but you shouldn't be there. If a guy is going to emotionally tear you up this much, you should move on and find someone else that will treat you better. It sounds like he is in it for the control and manipulation, and if you are AWARE he is narcissistic, ask yourself why you are even with him?

[Asker]

i know i have always know he was narcissistic person but i couldnt stop love him.. and now he broke up and he says its ur fault cuz u were always strated fight.. u ruined it.. but i didn't started fights just with by myself.. im sure i was always had reasons to starting fights..

[artsy_dragon]

Wow this is a lot to read. First of all you gotta call down

[artsy_dragon]

Calm *

[Asker]

how can i be.. he left me but the problem is yesterday he kissed and hugged me how its posibble

[artsy_dragon]

Well try to because you being worked up isn't going to help

[artsy_dragon]

He sounds like a douche, sorry. Stay away from him.

[Asker]

he told me that it was all my fault cuz i was always starting a fight.. but isn't normal? it can't be mean it was all my fault every relationships have fight and we were together for 2 years.. im so sad

[artsy_dragon]

As I said he is a douce. I understand it is hard but it is better off this way. Have you got anyone to talk to about this?

[Asker]

i have friends to talk but it can't be enough.. really i wanna die i can't eat can't drink can't do anything

[artsy_dragon]

www.wellandgood.com/things-to-do-after-a-breakup/

[artsy_dragon]

Read that. You're not going to die. You're upset and it's fine. It's not your fault

[Avicenna]

There’s something wrong with him. Time to move on.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

I don't know.

[Asker]

he told me that it was all my fault cuz i was always starting a fight.. but isn't normal? it can't be mean it was all my fault every relationships have fight and we were together for 2 years.. im so sad u are boy like him so what do u think? do you think he is not love me anymore or he did reverse psyhology to make me give up?