Would a woman’s lack of confidence be a dealbreaker for a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Genuinely it depends on the woman. As long as she’s not projecting and taking her insecurities out on me it’s okay not to be okay. Sometimes we all go through struggles as long as she’s able to understand and love me too. That’s what matters in the end.

[DishLady]

Yeah, it could be. If a woman is so insecure/needy/thirsty that she's constantly nagging a guy, it's not appealing to the guy. Same goes for guys who are this way. The only sort of person who really wants to be around someone who lacks confidence is a very controlling/toxic type.

[Nikki1989]

It depends on the guy. Some men like to control weak women.

[ohsheeT]

Not really because in time... She would have to start believing in herself because of the things that I do and how confident that I am

There's things in life that you just have to believe in yourself and take it on and go for it

[ProbablyClueless]

Most likely, yes. I would probably be willing to look passed it, if she gave me some reason to believe that she was a really wholesome person besides that though.

Self confidence is a tricky thing for a lot of women, but a sense of adventure and a willingness to take risks can go a long way to correcting the problem.

[Anonymous]

I think it depends on the confidence, like if a girl is insecure or lets people walk all over her then it would be a dealbreaker to most guys. Same with women, I wouldn't want a guy who's insecure or is a pushover because that could cause problems in the relationship.

[Berethor]

She virgin? anyway lacking confidence is actually a feminine trait I think, so it's okay.

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[MyBrainsInsaneReign]

I don't think so, but I guess it depends on how her lack of confidence affects the relationship.

Like is she afraid to go outside by herself? Is she not confident enough to buy groceries on her own?

How un-confident is this hypothetical woman?

[jshm2]

Depends how bad it is.

If she's insecure, then you can guarantee she'll be a mental health project.

[nawtee_me]

Confidence is something you always work on whether you have a little or a lot. So no it is not a dealbreaker for me. In fact if we worked on it together then we would have more time together bonding. Right?

[Hsisjwbwbjsjd]

No, you just need to find someone that you're compatible with.

[AIexandra]

I think a manipulative man would try to control the partner and it'd probably go on like that. But if not, then girl would probably have jealousy due to lack of confidence.

[Ladsin2]

Pretty much always is. Women want to be lead by confident men. Even the women who want to be dominant in the relationship may garner short term happiness, but it's no recipe for long term fulfillment.

[Ladsin2]

I read the question wrong. No I don't need her to be confident. I'll support her when she's not. If she's overly confident that would likely be frustrating. It'd likely come across as domineering.

[Anonymous]

Vulnerability can be very potent and allow her man to lead or guide her, which may well appeal to him.
Personally, I'd prefer her generally capable and autonomous though.

[Anonymous]

if it keeps getting in the way, constantly over and over again, then yes.

[LiamJHayden]

Probably not. I can always help her to build it up.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Because if she lavmcks confidence it's only a matter of time before she cheats on you with another guy.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. I'm sure I can help her built her confidence level.

[Lynx122]

Depends how severe it is.

[clampfan101]

I’m herself or the relationship?

[clampfan101]

In* 🙄

[In_Trance]

It definitely could be

[thearchjoker]

yes.

[Asker]

Why is that?

[thearchjoker]

Its phycology if you think you are valuable you will subconsciously walk and talk and move as if your more valuable thus making you appear more valuable. On the other hand if you think you aren't worth anything you will move, walk, and behave, like your not worth it and thus phytologically will become not worth it.

In addition to that humans are social, if you were a man would you prefer to be seen with a confident woman or a woman who lacks confidence? At best they'll think he has poor taste at worst some people might even think he is using her or is abusive to her and no guy wants that.

There is also compliments. Men love it when their girl smiles, it makes them happy. Girls who lack confidence will often not take a compliment and even argue against it. one of my Ex's was beautiful yet every time i told her that she would tell me I'm wrong. That sucks, having your genuine compliments from the heart always get rejected because a girl can't love herself feels horrible.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't think so

[AmeerX]

No..

[bobby_bush_eater]

Nope.

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[MasterKS]

Yes sometimes!

[Asker]

Why?