It depends. If that low self-esteem is just a constant burden I’m having to tend to - as if trying to heal her from a disease - it can be very draining and cast a shadow on the overall relationship. When somebody can’t be happy it’s tough. Being with somebody you always have to repair can be tough.
If they are a well rounded and healthy person who just happens to (like most of us) sometimes be a little more down on themselves over a specific issue, then that’s probably not a problem.
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Depends. In most situations, I would say no. Everybody has some kind of self-esteem problem and is the duty of a partner to understand and to give support. It is only problematic when the person (I have seen guys and girls doing this) behaves like needy attention seeker, emphatizing his/her weak points all the time to recieve many compliments.
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If she has low self-esteem and you build her up, once she has her newly restored self-esteem she will probably leave you believing that she can do better! :D
Eh I wouldn't say a deal breaker but it depends on how if affect the relationship. I'm all for helping someone improve but I have no interest in trying to "fix" them.
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