When it’s come to dating, which personality trait is an absolute turn off for you?

Question

Which personality trait would you never accept in your partner?

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Arrogance! I also can't stand it when guys brag about how much money they have (or w/ college students how much. they will earn when they graduate). There are so many things in life that are infinitely more important than money. it’s such a turn-off when a guy assumes I’ll be impressed by how much money they will earn!

I thank god every day that I’m off the dating market, and that I’ll never have to date again! It’s a nightmare fueled hellscape from where escape seems impossible! Lee asking me to marry him was one of the happiest days in my life, for so many reasons, not the least of which was being out of the dating market!

Laura 🤗 🥰

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Lying and unnecessary pressure, and a refusal to relax and calm down. I'm not saying anxiety is always bad, but sometimes it is bad, depending on what you are anxious over. An example is that I know people that will force me to go on long walks when my feet hurt cause they think I am gaining weight.

Like I don't have to go on 6 hour walks just because you don't like how I look. I could replace my tacos with a bowl of salad instead of walking 6 hours. I think its both annoying and offensive when people do not accept me or my choices and try to change me, especially if its an uncomfortable and stressful change.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Someone that thinks they're better than everybody else  Someone who talks about other people and creates drama it's just no place for me

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

If someone’s a liar. Chester. Bitchy without a cause. Is one sided. Just is not a very good person

mandyfire98 · Answer

Narcissim, mysoginistic, racist, homophobic. Those are zero tolerance

HawkPerception · Answer

Entitled, egotistical, modern feminist, narcissism, materialistic, woke

VIVANT · Answer

Lack of patience, lack of genuine curiosity, collecting info to use for leverage, rather than to learn about each other.

I strongly dislike when in dating, people just go steam ahead with a plan, instead of actually trying to take the time to get to know the other person as an individual and to let themselves be known by them. It’s all very dehumanizing, boring, and kind of nauseating.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Anything toxic, racism, homophobic, Transphobic, then how they act among others for example being polite to serving staff, shop staff, someone overly quiet, those that are judgmental of others.

Sunrise_in_Sydney · Answer

Being to hotheaded, I've delt with many family members in my childhood that were extremely quick to anger.
In my personal life and as an adult I put myself as far away from people like that as possible.
Just my way of protecting my peace.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Misogynistic, racist, homophobic and other petty insecurities.

Damaged00 · Answer

Lacks empathy/sympathy. These types are selfish and treat everyone poorly. They cannot love let alone care about anyone.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I can't decide between arrogance, super critical or selfishness  For me it just can't be one but a few

serious · Answer

Playing manipulative mind games like playing hard to get, using the jealousy card to test or for whatever reason.

Berethor · Answer

I consider being a ho a personality trait, that's a big turn-off to me, nothing else come close.

alice55 · Answer

Those that are cocky arrogant because they'r more than likely to be cheater and talk to lots of women at the same time while never committing

EmmaMary · Answer

@itsmeirem  Egotistical, Self Conceited and Arrogance, to name but a few.

Anonymous · Answer

Being woke and/or a feminist, being entitled, thinking too highly of herself. Measuring her perceived value as a woman based on the ones on which she measures a man's value rather than the ones men actually care about.

slatyb · Answer

Lack of consideration for others -- all others, not just me.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Hi there, cocky attitude, lies, narcissistic, racist

Anonymous · Answer

Bad hygiene.  IF that’s not part of personality then … Name calling / condescending towards others.

msc545 · Answer

I find that a sense of entitlement is a complete turn off.

Anonymous · Answer

Entitlement, self-importance, victim mindset, woke ideologies.

MizzArtFreak89 · Answer

Liars, cheaters, guys that try to sweet talk you but trick you, a guy that doesn’t make time.

worldscolide · Answer

Dishonesty. Arrogance. Anything related to feminism.

justme444 · Answer

Immaturity, disrespectful, ignorant, sheltered from the world, living in a fairytale and having hopeful mindset about life.

DishLady · Answer

Controlling/liars.

Starrrboy · Answer

Emotionally manipulative / always playing the victim..

derick01 · Answer

Women who aren't playful, frisky, or little sense of humor.

sobg1124 · Answer

A filthy mouth, especially use of the "F" word.

thegreenyogi · Answer

Domineering or possessiveness.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Lies or has anger issues.

jennyPuss · Answer

someone with an opinion but no information.

Staximus · Answer

Shady behavior

OtterMan68 · Answer

Vanity Anger Stupidity

Babygirl_S · Answer

I hate aggressive men

LiamJHayden · Answer

Conceit. Rudeness.

elaphe · Answer

Self-centeredness.

paledreams · Answer

Rude

Agape93 · Answer

Jealousy

Anonymous · Answer

Passive/Submissive personality.

SoJust · Answer

liar people

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Mean money obsessed

When it’s come to dating, which personality trait is an absolute turn off for you?

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