Do you believe there are things about attraction you don’t understand because of your gender?

[jennifer_bloom]

Like I have no idea why men seem to be attracted to passive people that don’t seem to defend themselves very well. Not putting anybody down, but I view helpless people in parenting terms or charity terms and not romantic terms.

I think men don’t understand why I prefer sensitive guys over tough guys. Men seem to prefer toughness in each other.

[purplepoppy]

Perhaps because they know when to turn the other cheek. Not every attack needs a response, often the attacker paints themselves in a bad light through their actions and the defendee shows strength by ignoring them.

In the UK gypsies are known to drive right across the country for a punch up because they heard a rumour they were slightly slighted. That's not something I respect.

Think of how Trump insults people, he's seen by international eyes as immature while those who shrug off his remarks are respected.

[ChiTown33]

Yes and no. I want to answer this question. But I'm not sure I can do it without potentially offending you or others.

[Anonymous]

Actually, I'm attracted to dominant girls, not passive/submissive.

Not all men are the same.