You have to live with them for 3 months
372 opinions shared on Dating topic. I’d just love my life alone if they were the one or date someone else cause if they’re the only one for me they’d just end up dying or killing me from second hand smoke. I’ve had asthma as a kid and sensitive to smell. I make no exceptions or allowance for such things and I want someone sober minded actively present and able to cope naturally with processes instead of like chemicals or substances and placebos and whatever and on and on.
So neither. I’d just end up alone anyways if he died early. If he didn’t I’d still not want to be with him.
i could never find my other half in someone like that.
I even spent half my life til now trying to get my brother to quit and now he’s going to doctor appointments for complications. He never quit and before all of this I somewhat disowned him. He didn’t appreciate my tears for him to quit then, so why would he appreciate my tears at all? He wouldn’t deserve them if he died that way. So 🤷♀️ kinda just letting him ruin his own self at his own pace. Unless he listens to the doctors, but so far has never listened to logic.
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1 yHonestly neither. Cigarettes make everything stink and probably also weed.
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u 1 yNo one can ever force me to make that choice.
20 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't think I could do either one. Cigarettes are horrid but the smell of weed is so much worse for me. It makes me angry as fuck.
00 ReplyI've dated both. Well. In my age range smoking is still quite common. I'm pretty thrilled at idea of a non smoker (I've never smoked). But ill accept a smoker. My hubby of 12 years smoked and mother was a heavy smoker all my life. Although she vapes now.
I've dated a "stoner" to for three years. He was a bad guy but not cos of the weed. My sisters husband was loverly guy and smoked weed in evening to chill.
I don't really like drugs in my home tho. Or smell of weed. But everyone seems to smoke weed these days. So... I think I'd prefer in the order None. Cigarettes. Weed. But order likely reversed in options.
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1 yActually I'd date someone that smokes both. I was a pack a day smoker for about 30 years and most of my serious girlfriends weren't smokers at all. I figure if they could look past it, then who am I to not date a smoker. Plus you could possibly miss out on someone great, just because they smoke.
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1 yCigarette smell and smoke I can not stand since I was a kid laying on couches at parties trapped in houses with non stop smoke and no open windows. Would never date a smoker.. but weed I can handle since I don't mind getting high once in a blue moon but isn't preferred.
10 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Prefer not quite that much weed. But I don't want to pick up smoking cigarettes again so weed it is.
13 ReplyYea they're both a lot
Oh no, she works. She wakes up in the morning, that's blunt number one. She likes to have it in the back yard when the weather is nice, eats, goes to work. Has another when she gets home from work. Has the last one a few hours before bed.
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1 yI despise both but if I'm forced I'd have to take the weed one because it's less of an impact on my lungs.
I think they are both disgusting and a sign that a person does not take care of themself or have any self-respect.
On the other hand I do understand addiction and if they are attempting to stop I can still respect them.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yCigarettes because I had a traumatic event with weed. Caused my epilepsy to get worse. 😩
13 ReplyI've heard that can happen. That must have been a pretty shocking experience.
Opinion Owner1 yThe smell gives me panic attacks. When my boyfriend did smoked I would leave the room. I didn't want him to stop because it helped him with his anxiety. He decided to stop before our daughter was born
Sounds like a good man. How does he deal with his anxiety now.
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Smokers are fine but weed is too much. I would never want to be with a stoner
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Lmao!
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@Kingofkings1992 I would rather neither tho. My husband does zyn so it's not too bad
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Zyn?
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@Kingofkings1992 nicotine pouches. It's a lot cleaner than smoking or anything else. He did vape for awhile too
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I can’t believe you’d rather smell nasty cigarettes than be with a weed smoker. Weed smokers are chill
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@Kingofkings1992 cigarettes smell good to me 😅 weed makes me gag. And nah most weed smokers acutally have anxiety and other issues that's why they smoke
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@Apple1996 you’re crazy woman
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@Kingofkings1992 I actually thinking @Apple1996 is right lol.
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@Kingofkings1992 I gave a more detailed response below. I've dated both so I get it. I wouldn't fully rule out either. I think weed IS the new tobacco replacement nowadays.
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1 yDefinitely weed lol. I’m a weed smoker, my husbands a weed smoker. Honestly I couldn’t imagine being with someone who didn’t smoke lol
10 Reply 3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Definitely the one that smokes weed because at least it has an upside. What the hell does smoking cigarettes do for you besides kill you?
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1 yNeither.. This is no choice at all as both are vile choices , I have extreme and to some extent irrational views on both … could never reconcile the logic in a person choosing either..
00 Reply 6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Cigarettes if I had to choose because I have an absolute zero tolerance policy when it comes to drugs.
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1 yI don’t like vapes, cigarettes, or blunts or anything.
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1 yNeither one impresses me nor would I date either of them.
10 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. i dont date at all. but soeaking in a hypothetical here, cigs/tobacco. to me, weed is a major red flag unless actually medically needed, but tgen most things that really would have her smoking that would be ted flags instead such as cancer.
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1 yI smoke dabs pretty often. I don't like smelling like weed tho so hopefully we could work w that lol.
I hate cigarettes though, I've still never inhaled one and never will
00 Reply 8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. somebody who smokes cigarettes , Not a big fan of brain damaged stoners
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Weed doesn’t cause brain damage. You sound profoundly ignorant
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@Kingofkings1992 we will only find out if it does or doesn't in 20 or 30 years. I expect we will have an epidemic of dementia patients.
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@exitseven no, I know with absolute certainty that it doesn’t. as a matter fact, the simple usage of any substance does not cause brain damage. It is possible for a drug overdose to cause brain damage, specifically an opiate overdose. It’s not the usage of the drug itself that causes the brain damage, but rather the potential for the brain to experience a temporary loss of oxygen.
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@Kingofkings1992 long term exposure to alcohol will cause brain damage. PCP and other stuff that was called angel dust will cause brain damage. We used to call them Rubberheads. What makes you think long term use of pot will have no consequences.
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Angel dust is PCP. I’m sorry but I don’t agree that long term alcohol consumption can cause brain damage. I never said long-term marijuana use can have no consequences to speak of, anything that alters your mental state can, especially when it comes to mental health. However, brain damage is not one of them.
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@Kingofkings1992 It is called "wet brain" I had a relative that had it.
567 opinions shared on Dating topic. Would not want date a person who smokes either/both cigarettes or weed!
00 ReplyWeed is healthier than a lot of prescription drugs big pharma push.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I smoked two packs a day and stopped so cigarettes since nobody stops smoking weed….
00 ReplyI wouldn't date anyone who smokes anything. They both stink and cause health problems.
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1 yI don’t date random person.
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1 yDefinitely weed over cigarettes
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1 yHard pass on both. Both bad.
00 Reply 13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I wouldn't date either.
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Anonymous(18-24)1 yI don't want to date any random person.
10 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Rather die single 🤪
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1 yWeed, duh
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1 yWill they share their weed with me?
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1 yDepends on the damsel.
00 Reply Neither no thank you. 🤮
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1 yStays single 😊😋
01 ReplyBut what if you can get them to stop
Date neither.
00 Reply340 opinions shared on Dating topic. Neither.
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1 yStay single.
00 Reply 794 opinions shared on Dating topic. Neither.
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