What has your partner done that made you think "This isn't going to work."?

[Anonymous]

I just entered a relationship not too long ago, we've been going on dates for a little over two months and we decided to officially start dating.

He was always very respectful before we became official, I had told him I was not a sexual woman on the second date. I'm waiting till marriage and I have a very little desire to do anything sexual at all. He was very supportive and agreed with me, (he's had sex before, he said he could wait a few years for it).

However, since we've become official he's been "pushing boundaries" (his words). I went to his house to meet his family and he wanted to spend the entire time cuddling on his bed. Which, okay. I like cuddling. But not for four hours while he kept trying to touch my boobs and butt and look at my bra even after I'd tell him not to and to stop.

I don't mind the sex jokes, I find them funny, but I do mind him not respecting my boundaries. It's not like we've been together for months or years, it's been one week and it feels like he thinks he has a right to my body even after we discussed that BEFORE we got together.

I can already tell this won't last long if he keeps it up. I'm planning on addressing this directly with him next time we're together.

I'm curious if any of you have gone through something similar?

[jennifer_bloom]

My boyfriend does not want a girl who uses him for money so he has never offered to buy me something unless we are on a date. There were times where I questioned whether he was as committed to me as I wanted him to be because he never offers to buy me anything unless its food for a date.