What would you do if your boyfriend leaves your text message on delivered but his snap score goes up?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend were chatting but then he left me on delivered for hours and his snap score keeps going up, it really gets me mad but I didn’t say anything, what should I do?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What I would do is reflect on how technology tricks me into obsessive behaviours, then I would start to discuss the matter with every friend I have. In order to share my experience with them. I would find this an enjoyable topic of conversation, this would give me a sense of belonging, of improvement.

[Anonymous]

You should stop hogging all of his time. No offense but it’s ok if there’s a gap in between chatting it up. He’s got more people in his life than just you and he was probably busy anyway. Don’t be like that.

[Asker]

I don’t mind him having other people or having gap in between texts, the matter is that he has changed and started to leave me on delivered more often and go to sleep without even saying goodnight

[Opinion Owner]

Is this an LDR? That’s usually the case where this texting and being left on read matters most. But in any case if things have changed then maybe it’s the honeymoon phase dying off. People say it’s between 1-3 months and while I do think that’s true, I believe it can last a bit longer, like 5-6 months.

[Asker]

Yes it’s temporarily, he’s on vacation these days, but at first everything was fine and we were talking for hours before going to sleep, now he doesn’t even say goodnight.
We’ve known each other for 5 months now, but we begun dating 2 months ago.

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately I think you’re starting to see his true nature, and it’s not that of the person you fell for. He isn’t actually as consistent and engaged as he was when everything was fresh and new.

[Agape93]

Nothing.