Why do I still think of guy I never dated?

[Anonymous]

I was friends with this guy and we never dated though he knows I like him and he likes me too but we never dated until he stopped logging on his social media and I wonder what happened to him? we never spoke since July last year and I still think about him sometimes I think he might met someone and he's dating someone else now other times I think he might be dead I can't stop thinking about him and I dont know what to do?

[OlderAndWiser]

You need to consider the strong possibility that in your fantasies, you created an idealized version of him in your head, and you are in love only with a fantasy.

[slatyb]

Send him a message.

[Anonymous]

Text him

[Asker]

We never talk again cuz he's never online and I don't know his number