Why do I keep dreaming of dating a guy i've never seen in real life?

[Nesssa_a]

I would dream of us dating like it was normal. I would kiss him and he would buy me presents and everything. I've never met this mysterious guy. I've only seen him in dreams. And it's always the same person. What does this mean? 😭

[ChrisMaster69]

Your brain is developing a story on the type of guy that fits in to your ideal.

you want something safe (kissing) and steady (same guy) to be appreciated (presents).

[Nesssa_a]

Wow that does fit my ideal guy perfectly. It's crazy how dreams can do this

[ChrisMaster69]

Brains are amazing things, they are receptors that pick up everything we see, hear, taste touch, feel, sense, they mix it up with our thoughts.

You see a guy he looks like he has what you want, he starts invading your dreams

If these are your usual dreams, then we’ll done and hopefully some day you will meet him.

Me my dreams are like nails down a blackboard, turning the last light off down a mineshaft and something touches your shoulder etc, all rather dark.

You can play with dreams as well, which can be fun

[Nesssa_a]

Wow that's facinating. Thank you for telling me this

[ChrisMaster69]

No problem, I have a few years of this erm stuff lol.
Dreams are a reflection of ourselves, usually the bright shiny unicorn but also that dark black dog

[ChrisMaster69]

Thanks for MHG

[Nesssa_a]

No problem!

[Daviddd5412]

I think it just means you have a really strong and vivid imagination. Are they dreams or daydreams?

[Nesssa_a]

They are dreams.

[Egirl28]

You have created a fantasy of what you want your perfect relationship to be.

[Nesssa_a]

Wow. That's amazing. Thank you.

[Egirl28]

I too keep having dreams like this

[Egirl28]

It means you are a hopeless romantic hold on to that

[Nesssa_a]

It's crazy how dreams work. It reveals things I didn't even know about myself! Thanks for the help :)

[Egirl28]

No problem I would write down the charactertics of the guy in your dream because I think that's what you are really looking for in a guy.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah agreed. Definitely a good idea (not surprising since you made it 👍)

I did that for a while writing out my dreams, scares me tbh.

[Nesssa_a]

That's a good idea i'll do it

[zeddend31]

do you mean wetdream?

[Nesssa_a]

Lmao there was no sexual tension at all just a few pecks and that's all. I wasn't wet either

[zeddend31]

Well i see making out with girls all the time in dreams sometimes its called a (wetdream).