Hot girl agrees to coffee?

[red324]

I'm definitely not a 10, but not ugly either, but it does raise an eyebrow as to why she would agreee to go out with me when a million other dudes probably want her too. I don't usually bother with these girls, but one thing I don't do is oggle over their good looks. In fact, I don't even bring it up. I usually find something else about them to compliment them on. Not sure if that's why, I don't know. Opinions?

[Summeroflove]

Well here is the thing if she has millions of dudes she could have chose and she has chosen you that says a lot. I would just go on the date and see how it goes, it’s just getting to know her and seeing if you’re both compatible.

The only reason I would be worried is if you’re flaunting your money or something like that because there are women who use men all the time.

Let’s just see how the date goes maybe she sees something different In you compared to millions of other dudes.

[normalice]

Just because a million dudes want her doesn't mean a million dudes ask.

[red324]

It never hurts to ask. I mean occassionally you'll get bitched at by some snooty girl, but it is what it is, I don't know.

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’m very similar to that lol I’m not ugly but I’m not super attractive and whenever someone wants to go out as a friend then they end up saying their attracted to me… I’m like me? Especially since I have a kid 😅

[Nikki1989]

Many men still live with the delusion that it is all about looks, when clearly it is not.

[red324]

I dated a girl that I wouldn't have cared if she gained 100 lbs I loved who she was. Now grant it she wasn't overweight when I met her, I'm just saying I would have still loved her if she did gain weight. She had such a quirky personality that it didn't matter to me

[slatyb]

She doesn't think she's all that. Good luck.

[red324]

That's a good thing then I guess.

[slatyb]

Most people don't think they are all that. There are plenty of very attractive people who have no idea that they are attractive. My wife was a beauty at 14 and still is. She had no idea until she started dating me.

[red324]

They get told all the time though.