If a girl says she wants to be close is that enough to suggest getting coffee together?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

Coffee is coffee. I have coffee with basically any professional or casual connection as well as with anyone in my church... Not sure why you're making a big deal about it.

[Asker]

Who said I was making a big deal out of it? All I said was if she said she wanted to be close is that enough to ask her to get coffee

[Lliam]

If you have a car, you should think of something fun to do and ask her if she wants to do that.

To be "close" sounds like she is interested in you. Go for it.

[OlderAndWiser]

That statement does not have much meaning unless we know the context in which it was made.

[Asker]

This day I got her phone number and we were texting and that's when she said it

[OlderAndWiser]

Was that statement a response to something that you said or asked?

[Asker]

No she just said it.

[slatyb]

Of course. How do imagine people get together? Someone has to ask for a meeting. If you want to impress her, plan a date and invite her.

[live2dance25]

Sure, why not ask her out? It’s worth a try.

[Asker]

You would think right? I just always heard "close" in a platonic context

[Mariogirl09]

She would do anything with you lol

[Asker]

Seriously?

[Mariogirl09]

Yes I think so

[Asker]

But why? "Close" sounds like a platonic terms like she wants to be besties

[Mariogirl09]

It honestly could be either or... but you have to clarify with that with her!

[leva543]

Coffee means coffee that's it