I’m seeing this woman and I feel a bit misled by her regarding her job. Should I continue seeing her?

[Anonymous]

I met a woman on Hinge and she told me that she worked in clinical research. I tend to gravitate toward intellectual women so I was intrigued by her thinking that she was a researcher. As I got to know her and she described her job, she is actually just doing administrative tasks and isn’t an actual researcher.

I’m feeling a bit misled. Should I continue seeing her or am I being petty?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda weird that she misled you about her actual job dude. I wouldn't say you're being petty for feeling off about it. A few things to think about:

- Maybe she just stretched the truth a bit on her profile to sound more impressive. People do that online dating stuff.

- Could just be an innocent mistake if she gets her job title confused or something too. Don't wanna assume the worst right away.

- At the same time, lying about stuff early on is a red flag. What else might she fib about if you keep seeing her?

- Ask her straight up why she said she was a researcher when she's not. See how she responds and if you believe her excuse.

- Maybe give her another chance since you seem to vibe otherwise. But keep your guard up a bit now that you know she wasn't totally honest at the start.

Honestly it's up to you if you can look past it or not. But I'd have a good chat with her to clear the air so you feel confident moving forward either way. Girl could still be cool, just gotta feel her out more now.