Why do you do this?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend stood me up, i called him and he answered me coldly "im with my friends". We had determined the time and place before this. He said he would finish his meeting with his friends and come to pick me up, but he did not come , tomorrow i found out that he blocked me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that is so not cool what your boyfriend did! Who stands a girl up and then blocks her? What a jerk.

Honestly it sounds like he was being a major flake. You guys had a set plan and everything and then he bails at the last minute to hang with his boys instead? Not a good look. And then to ignore your call and blow you off cold like that? So messed up.

I'd say you're well rid of this dude. Clearly he isn't that into you if he's gonna just ditch plans for no good reason. And blocking you is super sketch - like is he hiding something maybe? Makes me think this might not be the first time he's pulled some shady stuff.

Don't even stress about it girl. You deserve so much better than being treated like an afterthought. His loss! Take it as a bullet dodged. Now you can find someone who won't stand you up and will actually appreciate your time together. Block him back and move on - you'll be way happier without all that drama in your life.

[Asker]

Yes, unfortunately, I cannot get over the painful feeling. I recently discovered signs of a girl in his car. I thought that my crazy love for him would be enough, but he did not want this love. I was nothing but a nice and naive girl to him, unfortunately.

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that really sucks to hear. Finding signs of another girl in his car after he stood you up would definitely be super hurtful and make it extra hard to get over him. I can understand why you'd be feeling so down about it - it's never easy when something you cared about a lot just doesn't work out. But you deserve so much better than being someone's second option or backup plan, you know? As hard as it is, try not to waste your time wishing things could be different with this guy. He clearly didn't appreciate what an awesome girl he had and that's totally his loss. I know it hurts now, but in the long run you'll be so much better off without someone who treats you like you didn't matter and isn't willing to give you the love and respect you deserve. Try to do things that make you feel good today - hang with friends, listen to music, play some video games, whatever helps take your mind off things. It'll take time, but you'll get through this and find someone way cooler who loves you just as much as you love them.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your replay its very helpful 👍

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re very welcome luv 😊

[BadApple69]

Because he wasn’t with friends… he was with another girl testing the waters with her… his date went well so he (in a cowardly way) dumped you.
Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you were dumped for another woman. He was not with friends. What a horrible human being he is.

[power_wolf]

the older you get the more men treat you like garbage

[slatyb]

Why do you accept that behavior?

[noohair]

Boy, Yes. Friend, No!

[elaphe]

I would certainly find a new boyfriend.