Guys, why do you do this?

[Anonymous]

I mean when she is hysterically crying and to calm her down you hold her still until she stops. Did you loose respect for her since she couldn't get loose from you?

Or when you say "either walk or I'll carry you myself" threat. I still get those.. from my roomate. Is it out of care? How is someone so douchy and still cares?

He cares but he is a douchebag

He doesn't care he just likes to control you

I have no idea..

Updates

11 mo

Okay nobody said he cared. Thank you for being honest!

[strateguy632]

but i do not. i doubt most guys "hold them down" like picture or hold her still, if hysterical do not even hug... unless extend arms and she moves in for a hug.

[Asker]

He did it yesterday again...

[karekaaaa]

For a lot reasons
Love her..
Wanna make it so hot and let her remember him with this nice thing
And to not be rough at sex
And more reasons i think

[Asker]

But this is not sex. He is my ex a long time ago but now we are like siblings

[karekaaaa]

Why not sex?

[Asker]

Cause we aren't together... this is more him being super protective

[karekaaaa]

Mmmmm I don't know tbh

[Asker]

yeah its just rude

[Anonymous]

I do this all the time cause she loves it... that's her fetish...

She loves the feeling of helplessness and being controlled...

So I often pin her arms above her head while making out or just casual kissing ( Christian Grey style)

However doing this without consent or in a rude way is not a good thing and the guy is probably a douchebag

[Asker]

Yeah but if she was hysterical would you do it?

[Opinion Owner]

NO.. no hell no..
I am not actually a rough guy or something... all I want is her to be happy ykwis...
Only reason I would be doing this is when we are having a passionate romantic moment
When she is hysterically crying or something , my only concern would be to calm her down and help her... any guy who doesn't care about you when you are facing any sort of problem and does his best to help you... does not deserve you
And doing something like this at that time is weird and rude at the same time!