Look at this girl, she humiliates us just because we lack confidence. And this one humiliates us just because we can't hold eye contact for long, it's not our fault, we are just sensitive guys who are more submissive, it's just our nature.
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Does it have something to do with socialbiology and evolutionary theory?
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I hope not all of them are like the ones in the pictures.
Why are girls so mean to shy guys? Why do they find us repulsive?
Submissiveness in men are not masculine but effeminate. This has 0 to do with being shy or sensitive. This shows that there is a strong possibly that the guy never had a strong male figure in his life. What your looking for is not another woman, but a man. You need to stop reading all of that crap on the internet and learn to meet real women who will tell you why they tell you no. Women need's men with strong leadership skills, integrity, and fortitude. What one lacks, the other helps to build up. Not stay stagnate and expect the other to do everything. You're going to attract people that are probably of the same sex. And I'm not here to offend anybody, but from my experience, I've seen it happen. This is not due to some evolution nonsense. But by choice, because you feel comfortable being timid but feel uncomfortable with intense females. You're attracted to the opposite side of what you are supposed to be as a man. But you feel you can't personally achieve that for yourself.
Look, if you have to be fake, nobody is going to like you. You have to learn to stand on your own two feet. It is nobody else's job to baby you. And that is entirely up to you to view it like how in the pictures. Remember that everybody has a choice. The only type of girls who will be attracted to you is naive girls who hope they can change you but realize at the last minute that they can't and grow in disappointment.
The questions is this: DO you want to change from submissiveness? Or do you want to continue to stay as you are?
This has nothing to do with you being a loser. Is about are you ready to be a MAN, or do you want to be like a woman? Nobody is calling you a loser. But a woman cannot be with a man who acts like another woman.
Boys eventually grow out of that by adulthood. So this is something it sounds like you will need counseling for because that is not normal to be behaving like that and you consider yourself straight. It could be that you fear women, as that can be a logical cause. But I don't know why you personally believe that no girl is interested in shy guys.
Only for the ones who are personally interested in you. You don't have to go around trying to be domineering to girls. To misinterpret what I am saying. I am telling you to be yourself, but grow and mature to speak up your mind.
Those were probably written by another shy guy that's been burned to many times.
Some Girls can be selfish b! tches, it's not to just shy guys but to all guys. unless the see something in it for them they won't waste thier time talking to the nice guys. That's not your fault! It's theirs for being that way. I've noticed a trend where girls think being arrogant c*nt is hot. It's not! Eye contact is an important thing for me. I am very infatuated with eyes to start with and most people can't handle it from me anyway. There's nice decent girls out there, try looking in different places. Like a coffee shop, library or other local hang out that has others with the same interests as you. If all else fails there's plenty of online sites that narrow down your personality traits to people that are looking for the nice, shy and submissive guy. FYI I am VERY drunk right now and would apologize for being to blunt but I'm currently not sorry 🤷♀️
You don't know if the girls in those pictures even wrote those posts. Chances are, some self-loathing shy guy posted that to further feed his own issues.
I'm not mean to shy guys, but I'm not attracted to them. I don't like people who are intimidated by me when it comes to dating. It's just what it is. If you don't like that, sorry, but everyone is allowed to choose who you wanna be with.
Most women believe shy guys have low self esteem which is a bases for most women as men dont usually care for that, or dont want to go through the trouble of figuring said person out which makes sense but everyone has diffrent backgrounds and experiences in life so i believe it shouldn't be a factor. Ie you can be shy but anti-social or suffer from social anxiety but very social.
On the other hand loudest guy in the room shows whats he/she wants bluntly be it sexual or friendliness and is often easy to read most women know when guys just want something in particular unless she's enamoured (advice for you young ppl: love at first sight isn't real love)
Thanks. This gave me the final kick. This can only mean that the most wanted alpha guys are the ones in jail, sued for sexual harassment. This is why I consider the metoo campaign as fucked up. You want it, you get it.
not all girls are like this, in fact many girls prefer shy shy guys because t8hey are shy themselves, dont be butthurted only because some girls are mean
Every one of those issues can be overcome. The problem is so many guys are so worried their delicate feelings will get crushed in the process, they opt to hide. Life is full of risk/reward, pain, discomfort, unease.. grow up, move outside of your comfort zone, otherwise keep doing what you, continue to get what you have gotten.
It all depends on how shy you are. I dated a guy that said was shy and I had to stop doing it because I felt like he was just showing not interest in me. Maybe that's the message you are sending
Maybe but how are we supposed to know that. I really thought that he wasn't. At least you should send the girl a text saying that you are interested if it is very difficult to say it in person. I watched a video about shyness if you want I can send u the link
Often it is cause of how they feel about themselves. They bully us to make thwmselves feel better. The other reason to make sure they dont have to bother.
Women aren't masculine. There is something wrong with their biology if they are.
... women are female and have a feminine energy, e. g. periods, childbirth, ovulation. If they can't achieve this then something is biologically wrong.
Yes, to make you believe that. Whether you choose to believe that is up to you... whether you choose to believe the alpha/beta nonsense is also up to you
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