Is it ok for a man call a another woman babe in a text?

[Bety23]

My fiancé call another women babe in a text he said it his cousin dose it sound wild or is it me what u think

[Finchie40]

Most guys’ just say babe , because it comes natural to them , it’s a word that most guys’ use when talking to a girl , so you shouldn’t let it bother you to much unless you feel something shady is going on with him and that other woman that he isn’t telling you about? Only you can figure that out on whether he is or isn’t

[Bety23]

He tell me about her and told me that’s the nickname for each other

[Finchie40]

Honestly that sounds disrespectful to me , I would only call my partner babe or baby , so saying that to another girl is kind of shady and disrespectful How would he feel if you were calling another guy Babe?

[AviatorTom]

Babe is a term of endearment, it's not sexual. I know a few men who call many women "babe"; they know he does it and no one gets upset.

[Bety23]

So If I called guys babe it ok too

[AviatorTom]

@Bety23 Sure

[Bety23]

Ok cool thanks

[HelpfulWoman]

who cares what the cousin does.
if you are uncomfortable with it, share that with your fiance and make it known its now a boundary to not cross. if he does cross it, luckily you can call off the wedding

[Bety23]

He said it a pet name I glass not a big deal

[Bety23]

We getting married I love him

[HelpfulWoman]

is it a big deal to you?
apparently enough to make this question

[Bety23]

It not a big deal I was just asking

[V_Injector]

It's okay only if he's fucking her. Otherwise, that would be weird.

[ProbablyClueless]

If I called another woman "babe" over text, I would fully expect and feel let down if my wife didn't have the self esteem to slap the shit out of me and kick me to the curb.

[noohair]

It is like the term dude for women. Like the Brits use love when talking to women. In Spanish culture of some countries the term amore is used and it does not mean love all the time.

[dudegreat91]

It can happen. But yeah that is not an ideal situation

[Jmmmfi4]

IF I DID THAT I PROBABLY WOULDN'T EXPECT TO BE GETTING LAID FOR A WHILE.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope doesn't sound good

[DrPepper12]

Unusual but if cuz it might be a family thing

[loveslongnails]

Yet another thing to get upset about?

[Titus_of_Ultramar]

There is no situation where that is ok

[LazerMan]

No it is not ok

[ashish804]

he is too friendly

[jahaims]

He lies

[eagle1951]

yeah

[Anonymous]

Nope guy