How to deal when a man who thinks texting other women is nothing wrong?

[Anonymous]

so me and my boyfriend had a conversation about why he’s texting other women. I asked and confronted him. He said he doesn’t know why he does it that he wasn’t talking to them in a disrespectful way or anything and it’s not like he’s taking them out on dates because he has me. I told him he’s disrespecting me and asked why he felt the need to text other women in the first place when he’s over here trying to win my trust. I know there’s relationships that deal with this and stay with their partner. How do you deal or does that not bother you? I try to not think anything of it at times but I don’t think I can deal with that, but I’m also trying to make the relationship work.

[Anonymous]

If you’re struggling with trust issues then the worst thing you can do for yourself is trying to make it work with someone who triggers it.


You’re right, it’s very disrespectful, but you’re hanging on to the relationship so tightly, he’s allowed to do what he wants and he has learned that even if you’re pissed off, you aren’t walking away.


One thing I’ve learned while being with my boyfriend is that if a man really loves you, he would NEVER disrespect you on that level. Never ever. I have dated men who will do what yours is doing, and now that I know better I can tell you confidently that this is not only wrong but he doesn’t give a damn if you like it or not. If I were you, I’d be done trying to deal because at this point you have zero peace of mind. He doesn’t care enough to give you that, and I couldn’t Advise you fight for that kind of man.

[Asker]

Yea, very true we’ve been together for 4 years & I’ve always told him I won’t tolerate that type of behavior, but still does it so yes it is time for me to let him go! Thank you!

[Elena_Stewart]

Well, does that affect your time with him? If not, let him do it. I wouldn't mind if my partner did that.

[Anonymous]

You leave. Especially if it’s a constant thing. You can’t change him. A majority of men, a large number will change for the right girl. Maybe you’re not the right girl. So you can either leave or continue to put up w it. Simple as that.

[OlderAndWiser]

You can't change him but you can change his title from boyfriend to ex-boyfriend. . . or you can put up with this for the rest of your life.

[Nikki1989]

Sadly, most men are like this. You would be better off to dump him and find someone more respectful and loyal.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because he has plenty of options with other women. If you want an Alpha Chad you have to share him.

[Anonymous]

The best way to deal with a guy like that is to dump him and find a better one.

[Zestyassmf1997]

What’s he texting them about?