Is it normal to shit talk exes or does that mean ur not over them?

[kareenakapur]

My boyfriend showed me a pic of his ex and I said he got an upgrade and he DIEDDD laughing again and again and told all his friends. Highly tho I am sexy asf. I told him I regret saying that and that all girls have their own beauty. But he loved that I shit talked his ex. I would be kinda salty if my boyfriend shit talked my ex bc he doesn't deserve to be bullied.

[ProbablyClueless]

Shit talking someone generally means that you aren't over them. But in this case, you were the one talking shit.

I guess his behavior strikes me as more immature than anything else.

[DrPepper12]

I don't agree with it. It seems petty and bullying to attack someone who can't defend themselves AND you've only heard one side of the story. Your incident seems almost harmless and not shit talking

[avery58]

Yeah, I'd say he's clearly not over it if he still hates her

[kareenakapur]

but its been like 2 years yikes

[avery58]

Some people are stuck in the past

[Jerre]

I don’t shit talk about anyone, friend, ex-friend or a person I despise

[Anonymous]

It depends who the ex is my wife had sex with her ex last week

[MicahRaine]

Normal? yes. Good/healthy? no.