Am I wrong for asking a woman's weight when she asked me how tall I am?

[Anonymous]

So here is the situation, we matched on tinder. She asked me how tall I am within seconds of messaging. I said "well I need to know I'd your weight starts with 2 before I tell you if my height begins in 6" she called me an Incel, told me that what she weighs is irrelevant, and that it's none of my business. So I blocked her.

[normalice]

It's fine, though you could have probably been a little more delicate in asking.

In any case, the reason she didn't answer is because she knew you wouldn't like her answer.

[Anonymous]

Nah, in my opinion they’re both shallow questions, (the only exception is her being 6 feet and higher because I can understand her wanting a tall guy) so if a woman asks for your height you have every right to ask her weight or dress size. I think asking dress size may be a little more polite.

But I mean you should be able to tell if she’s slim or not based on photos pretty easily.

[Caroline91]

Not wrong but maybe a little bit insensitive in this situation. Sounds like it did flush things out though, so you could move on quickly. lol

[paledreams]

I feel ya man - life is a lot like juggling while unicycling on a tight rope - over a volcanoe - and it's summer lol. So I feel ya man - it's tough 😋

[NamerOfStars]

No, but you DID leave yourself vulnerable; what if her weight started with a 3?

[exitseven]

Go ahead and adk her. Then report back on how well rhe date went and if you had any.

[Asker]

If you read the whole question you'd see there was no date, I blocked her.

[exitseven]

Okay.

[noohair]

Double statdard. You did good. Score on for the team. I'm 5'8". lol

[Twalli]

You should have responded, it's as much of my business is my height is your business.

[LiamJHayden]

People are entitled to their preferences.