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1 yI genuinely think that it depends, I do feel a kiss should be saved for someone whose special not just for anybody. Dating stages is really getting to know someone, seeing if you’re compatible, getting to know someone for who they genuinely are and either a connection is made or it’s not.
Every relationship moves at its own pace both people need to be communicating where one another stands with each other. Because what can happen is two people are in totally different places but assume they’re on the same page.
A kiss be it on the cheek, forehead, lips, or anywhere else should just come when it feels natural and both people are comfortable enough with each other. That makes it more special once you kiss too many people it looses its meaning
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1 yI don't think there's a set answer or a right answer for this. It really just depends.
But definitely read the room though. The context is important.
If even as early as the first date you're getting along great and getting close to each other then I'd say it's fair to kiss then.
But if you're not getting along that great yet, take some time to get to know them better before doing anything.
A rule a lot of people use though is never on the first date, though I don't necessarily agree with it. That it's safer after at least a month or so of consistent dating, preferably even later than that. Though again I don't necessarily agree.
Overall, it's up to you to figure it out.
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1 yWhenever you’re ready and comfortable to do so.. things have changed drastically, dating isn’t the way it was decades ago. (It’s a lot of meaningless interactions)
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1 yWell if I don't want to kiss them by the 3rd date I'm out because chances are ill never want to kiss them. That said, wait as long as you need.
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2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. . Well for me I'm going to know I like that person before I even date them there's going to be a chemistry there's going to be a connection there's going to be an energy between us both so I mean I want to at least give one very slow soft tender kiss the very first time we go out but that's just me I want her to feel that energy between us both to become one with each other
10 Reply3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. No set time limit , if you feel a great connection with that person and feel you both have a lot in common , kiss on the first date if you want to , if they feel the same way for you , they more than likely won’t hesitate
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1 yThere is no black and white rule. Just go with whatever you feel comfortable with whenever you feel comfortable to do so. Go with the flow.
The right guy will never judge you negatively for being into him and clearly showing your intentions.20 Reply - 3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yOne. I usually made it a point, if the first date went well, to kiss her goodbye at the end of the date, to let her know I'd like to see her again.
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1 yYou don't even need a date to start fucking.
20 ReplyI didn't really go on any date with my wife. We just met and kissed when we said goodbye. Saw each other the next day and been with her ever since.
For dates before that, I'd say kiss or let the other one know they're special on the second date. If nothing happens on the third date, it might never happen. Someone will have lost interest by then.
00 Reply692 opinions shared on Dating topic. First date. If the feeling isn't there, then it isn't. Don't try to force triangle squares into square holes. There are more women out there.
I get if younger women want to hold out on sleeping together on that first date, as it will definitely trigger the buyer's remorse. A kiss isn't as serious unless you're working by prostitute rules though.00 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Hell, I have almost always gotten a kiss at the end of a first date. I'm not talking about tonguing and face sucking. That comes later.
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1 yHowever many you feeling comfortable with.
Nothing wrong with kissing on the first date or the 10th.21 Reply- 1 y
Definitely 100%
There is no specific number. Do you want to kiss them? Then get consent and do it.
First date, no date, 5th date, whatever you're comfortable with.Most guys will wonder what's up if you go more than two dates without one, but anyone worth will stick it out if you just say you'd like to get more comfortable with them first.
More traditionally guys will expect at the end of the first or second, but again, the time table is 100% up to you.
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1 yIt depends if the timing is right and if the date feels right and ends well Not all dates end well and the chemistry can be off. I think the connection and chemistry is key for the first kiss.
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1 yIf love is in the air & sparks really fly you will most likely smooch on the first date however nowadays I think people kiss via text message instead of the real thing.
00 Reply 16.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. One. I would expect a goodnight kiss at the very least.
20 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. No rules. Just do it when it feels like the right time.
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1 yI’d say a few. I don’t want some random man’s lips on me lol.
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1 yIf the guy is going on 4+ dates with you, that means you are really hitting it off and should probably kiss him.
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1 yYour feromones will "decide" for you when the time is right... and your brain will let you know...
00 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. it can be on the first date, 3rd or fourth or never.
It depends on the chemistry between both parties, do you have the urge to grab her and kiss her, or is it like being out with your sister?00 Reply
1 yI think it really depends. My ex and I never kissed. But my girlfriend and I kissed before our first official date. For context, we've known each other for over a quarter of our lives lol
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1 yGenerally 3 but it can happen at 2 or 5 , it really depends on them, some move fast and some take their time, I would try on the second or third date but sometimes it can take longer when you feel it’s right
00 Reply 12.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Forget should and do what you feel. Any man who judges you for moving to fast is not a man worth dating.
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1 yNot in 'till the third date Then on fourth date. 💕
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1 yWhatever feels right. Dating is kinda all about judgement and it only gets better by trying
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u 1 yI say wait until after you've become "official".
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Anonymous(18-24)1 yThese days you should have sex on the first date lol
12 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends where you are a kissing them, I suppose...
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Go in for the kiss when it seems appropriate.
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1 yWhy every time featured in the thubnails of similar comments are they featuring a black guy with a white girl? That is what I would like to know.
00 Reply8K opinions shared on Dating topic. it depends. i have kissed on the first date and also waited several months.
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1 yAs many as it takes so you don't get cooties. 😄
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1 yWell with my boyfriend and I it was the 3rd, we knew it was time, it’s up to each couple but you’ll know when it’s the right moment for sure 💋
10 ReplyIf you don't kiss on the 1st there shouldn't be a 2nd
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1 yWhen one of you ask and it feels comfortable to do so
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1 yShould be about 90 minutes into the first date.
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1 yThat depends on you and the chemistry you have with that person
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yWhen the vibes are right. Sometimes it’s the first date, other times it might be the fifth date.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yKiss ar the second date, blowjob at the fourth
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1 yWhenever you feel comfortable. ❤️
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1 yMaybe a couple but definitely not on the first
00 Reply For you, ten. For me 0.
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1 yOften the first. Depends on how it turns out
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1 y1 or ♾️. Your call!!!
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1 yWe gotta be official first
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1 yI am open to it on the second date.
00 Reply 2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. When it feels right
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1 yWith drug, right away
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1 yIt can be the first if it feels right?
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1 yFollow your instincts
00 ReplyThat would be the first date
00 ReplyI’d say 3 dates at least.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yDepends even more then 4 sometimes
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1 yZero
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1 yFirst date.
00 Reply 673 opinions shared on Dating topic. Three dates.
00 Reply6K opinions shared on Dating topic. No set number
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1 y0 dates!
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. One date
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Anonymous(18-24)1 yFirst
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