Have you ever asked out someone that showed you no signs of interest?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah a couple of times

Once

Nope

All the time

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[Lliam]

A few times. I got turned down a couple of times but I was successful a few times and even got into a couple of exclusive relationships.

In one instance, there was a lady who worked as a damage estimator at an auto body shop that I used to deal with regularly when I was an insurance claims adjuster. The two of use had to negotiate repair costs with each other.
She was always businesslike and never showed any signs of interest.
But she was really cute. So one day I asked her if she would like to go dinner sometime. She agreed.

I met her at a restaurant near her house. We got along really well. She was a different person that when she wasm't working.

After the date, I walked her to her door. She turned and stepped close, looked up into my eyes, put her hands on top of my shoulders, rose up on her tip toes, and kissed my lips. I put my hands on her waist and she pressed against me.
It was just a lingering kiss. No tonguing or face eating. But she exhaled through her nose when our lips were together and her warm, sweet breath was intimate and erotic.
I was no stranger to kissing, but something about her soft, tender lips sort of made my head swim. I sensed that she knew what she was doing.

We went on a couple more dates after that and made out a lot. She even let me feel her boobs and ass.
One night, after a day at the county fair, she invited me into her house and made love to me like no woman ever had.
I was 36 and had had girlfriends from the time I was 16. She turned out to be 30.

We wound up living together for almost two years. I kept my apartment but moved some clothes and essentials to her place and would go to my apartment when I needed to.

She was the first woman I ever loved with my entire heart and soul. She loved me, too.

[razelove]

Of course, that is what a cold approach is. You go up to someone you don't know, and they don't know you, and try to isolate them to talk and warm them up. Step II is to try and get them to leave where they are, and their group to go somewhere else with you, anywhere.

So yeah, it's asking someone with no interest to go out with you, to build interest. Generally you snowball that until it feels like you're in a relationship though it has only been like an hour or two, then you sleep together, they get buyer's remorse by morning, or puppy love and it repeats.

[HawkPerception]

I have once. Back in high school. Not happening again 😂

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Just because someone doesn’t show interest doesn’t mean you can’t ask them out. I always say if you like someone you shouldn’t be afraid to let them know & I always say if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

[Dongie]

I was real shy growing up. It was brutal. Then I turned 31. I began to pick the most snobbish stuck up beautiful bitches around to ask out. I was the in-person troll. I did it smooth and with confidence. Although a few times I did start laughing and blew the whole thing.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Why would I want to do that? To me, it's unattractive in all cases possible

[Fireguy17]

yeppers, it's great entertainment.
most of them do not know that you are messing with them.

[LiamJHayden]

No. I'll approach and engage without her showing interets, but if she still shows none I move on.

[Anonymous]

Only when I was young and stupid. Few guys are taught about women most guys need to learn their nature the hard way.😆

[jazzy34]

Yup. That’s my toxic trait. 🥴😂

[paledreams]

🎷 I'll play a tune 🎶

[jazzy34]

….. Okay.

[NathanDavis]

never, lol

[Jmmmfi4]

NOPE