Did he have the right to be upset and remove me?

[Anonymous]

I messaged the guy I’ve been seeing “get me out of rotation with these girls ” because I just had a feeling I’m not the only one his having intercourse with.

he responded with “you messaging me over a feeling you have? “ and I said yes he then said “If u feel that way I’m not forcing none upon u”

I responded with “your so right, good night , and then he removed me (this is our 4 time removing and adding each other back) did he have the right to feel a type of way?

[Anonymous]

Well yeah he has the right to do what he wants as a single man, he doesn’t need your permission. However I do understand why he was annoyed because it’s not your place to call him out about other women since you’re only casual sex. On top of that you had no proof of him with other women so you can’t make accusations based off feelings. If you have a history of adding each other back then that’ll probably happen again but just be real with yourself about what you want from him. You seem to like him a lot in order to care about other women so maybe you’re ready for a relationship and he isn’t. Ir would be better to know now.

[Asker]

The only reason I’m bringing up other girls is because we have unprotected sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, if he can’t be bothered to protect himself with other women then maybe he’s not the right guy to be doing that with.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, and that seems like a lot of unnecessary drama for adults.