Do I have the right to be upset with him?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My birthday was the day before yesterday. I had originally planned on going out with my parents but I cancelled. I let him know my plans were cancelled and I was feeling a bit down. He didn’t bother asking me what’s wrong or inviting me somewhere. Next day he messaged me asking me how my birthday was…I lied and told him someone took me out. He followed up by saying when I will go out with him. I told him he should’ve invited me for my birthday. Today he said something similar and I replied with the same thing…. you should’ve invited me for my birthday when I told you I’d be at home.

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_Just_A_girl_ Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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Happy birth escape !
Did he say hbd at least?
You did have plans then drop them... So maybe he was busy with something work when he knew you had plans already?

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WhitneySnow Follow
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He should’ve asked you to go out for your birthday

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- Asker
  
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  Exactly
  
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Luckycharms12 Follow
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You cancelled why is that his fault plus you lied to him if anything he should be pissed off

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- Asker
  
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  It’s his lack of interest for me. Even if he wouldn’t have time to invite me he should’ve talked to me while I was home…kept me busy to avoid feeling down. He didn’t do anything.
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
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  Why is it his job to validate you. And if you wanted to go out and cancelled in the first place. You should have said we should go out together with my parents
  
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- Asker
  
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  Fair enough. Why didn't he show he cared when I told him I was feeling down?
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
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  Didn't know what to do
  
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