What are some dealbreakers/incompatibilities that you would tolerate in a casual/friends with benefits situation but not a serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

[mandyfire98]

Well one being having sex with someone and after just leaving and it not being a big deal.

Doing that in a relationship is probably not acceptable lol

[Asker]

Okay. So, what I meant with this question was certain traits that would disqualify a person from being your boyfriend/girlfriend. For example, I’m fine with being friends with benefits with a woman that has kids. As for a relationship, no.

[Still-alive]

lol 'probably' :P

[PoppyLuvsFun]

I don't think I have any. If he's not worth dating, he's not worth having sex with. He has to have some type of vibe.

I'll tell you my number one dealbreaker for anyone, friends with benefits or relationship, is that if I get pregnant I'm keeping the baby.

[Nikki1989]

It would be mostly the same deal in both situations. The keyword with friends with benefits is “friends.” There still needs to be compatibility.

[Asker]

Sure, but obviously there is a reason why this person is just an friends with benefits and not a boyfriend/girlfriend.

[Nikki1989]

Well, if there is true compatibility, you would both want the same thing.

[BetaBucks]

Relationships with exes