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Friends with benefits or open serious relationship?
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I'm already in a polyamorous relationship so if I were picking I'd take the serious open relationship
FWBs can work for young people, but as you grow older, you want more.
You again? You always have the right answers. Are you an AI program?
And how are you a 'Master' here? Have you been on this thing since the app first came out?
Neither.
Monogamous?
Yeah.
Missing out on the fun
I don't find any fun out of letting guys use me for sex.. I only like sex with someone who loves me.
Of course. But what if your guy who loves you, would want to be adventurous with you?
Then clearly he doesn't actually love me since he want's more woman or he wants to let other men use my body for his weird fetishes.
That's traditional belief system. Some people challenge traditions
I fully believe that to be the truth.. since if I was to fuck other guys I know I personally would catch feelings for them and I would most likely fall out of love for my partner I would still love and respect him but I wouldn't Be in love with him.
Would just sleeping with someone make you fall in love with them? Isn't there anything more to it?
To me sharing my body with someone is too intimate of a thing to do with just anyone.. so I think if say I didn't really know the guy I would just feel used and grossed out with myself. If I did know the guy I think I would essentially fall for him because sex to me is love, hence why I only fuck guys I love. And why I only slept with 2 guys and now I am almost terrified to meet someone new since the last guy hurt me pretty deep and I regret sleeping with him completely.
Ohh I am sorry, this is in bad experience/ hurt territory. Yes I can imagine how that is. So you are a demisexual, need an emotional connection before physical? And what I meant to ask is, would the way someone fucks you, that alone make you fall for them or more than that, like how they treat you and share other interests with you etc?
Yeah I never knew what a demisexual was.. but yeah that would be the only way I would be comfortable having sex with someone. I don't know.. like if a guy fucked me liked he loved me, like being gentle and looking in my eyes, being romantic, and trying to get me off I think that would draw me to them more and make me much more willing to accept them into my heart even if we aren't that compatible with personalities and stuff. I think that is why sex scares me so much more now.. and why I want to make sure there is love there in the first place because we all know most guys will just fuck anyone.. but for me I would defo get hurt by it even if I didn't love them. I kind of think it's because I am a really sensitive person and fucking is when I am at my weakest and most vulnerable state so to be doing that with someone is like letting someone touch my soul. I'm not sure if that actually answered your question or not but I honestly don't have that much idea myself besides having sex with one guy who loved me and one guy who pretended to love me.
Oh I looked up Demisexual.. I don't think I am that since I do lust people if they are hot and I enjoy sex.. it's just I can't go through with actually fucking "for fun" since I know sex bonds me to people and holds more meaning to me personally than it probably does for other people.
I get you totally and that does answer my question too. Romantic sex can go deep for sensitive people, I am one myself. So it means, you could do friends with benefits because a friend could fuck you romantically and sensually because of the friendship underneath and it would not be so mechanical and without emotional intimacy, correct?
Most guys would fuck anyone indeed but I have turned down sex just because I did not like their personality even if they looked too good to pass up on. Demisexuality can be a spectrum, so people like you and me are on the milder side of it where we need it to be meaningful but not way out there. You want to feel valued and cherished and not used. I know that feeling all too well myself. What is your Zodiac sign? Might be interesting to see how your personality lines up with it.
I probably could but then it would just turn into hurt and regret because after having sex a few times I would start to grow feelings towards the person and I know I would want something more than just friends, and the friends with benefits wouldn't, so I wouldn't attempt to play myself like that. My zodiac sign is Sagittarius, what about you?
Ahh the bossy sign! :-) Mine is Gemini. Not really 2 faced as they say. But man of extremes, all or nothing type of deal. Emotional and rational. Courteous and arrogant. I have not known Sagg to be so sensitive, they are usually pretty chill people who don't take things seriously. It is intriguing how you say you are. Mind if we chat in private instead of here?