What are your deal breakers?

[Anonymous]

[Lurix]

In a relationship, there are definitely a few deal breakers for me. First off, I can’t stand a lack of communication. If we can’t talk openly about our feelings or any issues that come up, it just leads to misunderstandings and frustration. Honesty is huge too—if I can’t trust you, it’s hard for me to stay invested.


Disrespect is a major red flag. I need a partner who values my opinions and boundaries; anything less feels like a huge breach of trust. I also think it’s important to be on the same page about life goals. If you want kids and I don’t, or if our career paths clash, that can create serious conflict down the line.


Addiction issues are tough for me as well. If someone is struggling with substance abuse, it can put a huge strain on the relationship, and I believe that kind of situation usually needs professional help. I also need a partner who supports me through challenges. If I’m going through something and they’re dismissive or unsupportive, it can be really hard to deal with.


Jealousy or controlling behavior is a definite no for me. I want to be with someone who trusts me and lets me be myself, not someone who feels the need to keep tabs. Finally, fundamental differences in values—like religion or politics—can cause friction, so I think being on the same page there is crucial. Overall, I just want a relationship that feels balanced, respectful, and supportive.

[noohair]

Social media queens.

[HighValue]

Being liberal/democrat covers most of the moral deal breakers. Most things they like/want are the opposite of what I want in a partner.

Also, drugs, heavy alcohol drinking, kids from past relationships, a past of casual sex, unfair in a relationship, dishonest, short unnaturally colored hair, a past of promiscuity, etc. are all deal breakers and are pretty much covered by my first sentence.

[ProbablyClueless]

Hygiene, noncombative personality, no talking with exes, MUST communicate clearly/effectively, and finally; I will pay her all the love and respect in the world, but she's gotta be reciprocating that energy.

[Ramithefitnessbear]

Dealbreakers:


- Smoking and drugs. Also excessive alcohol consumption.


- Not working out or have and active lifestyle. Can be flexible if the person is willing to change to an active lifestyle.


- Can’t keep things in private but talks about everything to other people.


- Not working or studying


- Overweight/fat


- Manipulative behaviour


Etc etc etc…




Best regards.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Anyone who smokes or does hard drugs. Also liars are another one I can't tolerate.

[TatteredAngel]

I have a list in physical appearance dealbreakers. I don’t like people who are dishonest or snobbish or cruel.

[Abbycado]

Bad hygiene for sure.

[Anonymous]

I have too many to list.

[paledreams]

So, so many

[Bẽllã3]

Cheating and drugs