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Hmm… some ones that come to mind, in no particular order:
This is asked A LOT here on GAG. This along with "what's your ideal partner look like?" But I don't really mind answering, as long as I don't get some pissant complaining about my list.
DEALBREAKERS:
1. Feminist/far-left/woke
2. Bisexual/queer (lesbians)
3. Polyamorous/isn't single/the "open relationship" type (an adulterer; unfaithful)
4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally
5. Transgender (males)
6. Has an OnlyFans and/or promotes lewd content on the internet
OTHER HIGHLY UNDESIRABLE TRAITS:
1. Closed-minded/stupid
2. Arrogant/conceited/entitled
3. High maintenance/gold-digger
4. Shallow/superficial
5. Lazy
6. Has kids
7. Smokes/does drugs
8. (Physically) Too skinny
9. (Physically) Looks or dresses too masculine/butch
10. (Physically) Body/face piercings
People I wouldn't date, or less likely to:
- someone who smokes/ due drugs (drinking is fine as long as they aren't a heavy drinker)
- not the biggest fan of piercings or tattoos to be honest
- anyone who is the open relationship type or is unfaithful
-anyone with a high number of exs
-Rude or unfavourable personality
- personal hygiene levels need to be decent
- religion is fine, but they need to be open to the fact that I won't partake in it
- I prefer clean shaven but it isn't a compete deal breaker, just a preference
- anyone that is aggressive, abusive or anything like that
- coffee drinkers... the taste/ smell make me feel sick
- anyone with no job and/or drive to do anything (I don't like the idea of fully supporting someone permanently)
- doesn't want marriage/ kids
- doesn't have hobbies (or only sporting or TV watching hobbies as it would mean we didn't have much in common)
- has an issue with videogaming...
- doesn't like going for walks
The biggest deal breakers to me would be
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I don’t have many and most of the obvious ones to most I’m actually ok with such as them having kids now or have cheated in the past or whatever (even if both not ideal) but here are some for me
1) if they don’t go to the gym regularly and are smaller in size then me. It a big part of my life and I like bigger guys
2) if they believe in sex after marriage. I can’t have that
3) religious. Believing in god and being a different religion is fine but can’t deal with a dude who goes to church every Sunday I’m sorry
1) Disrespect. Before I am a woman, I am a human being, and I expect the same level of respect that I give.
2) Infidelity. I am loyal, but that goes out the window with any type of infidelity.
3) Faith. While no one should ever feel compelled to be of my faith, I couldn’t be with anyone who didn’t share at least the basics.
4) Family. There is nothing better than having a family. Anyone who didn’t want to start a family would not have made it to a second date.
I could go on and on. But I am happy to report that I have been happily married for almost 10 years, so I’m not shopping for anyone new.
-I don't tolerate Monkey branching.
-Unhygienic, snobbish and slobbing behavior
-Multiple tattoos or piercings especially eyebrow and septum piercings.
-Borderline personality disorder or Narcissistic personality disorder
-Having had more than 3-4 intimate partners.
-I like someone who has moral and also martial virtue and they should believe that their is something greater than themselves.
-Needs to remain healthy and fit, I practice martial arts regularly and I take care of myself, and I expect the other partner in a relationship to do the same thing.
-And they need to be respectful, nice and stoic.
If they don't place high importance on being a reasonable individual in terms of socializing, especially in their approach to conflict. I'm not looking for perfection. They can slip up. But I like to know that I can generally count on them to have both of our interests at heart when it comes to how we disagree.
A man who smells like a zoo. I do not want to know how you get to the point of smelling so bad that you can go to a place where he has been and still smell it like he is still there. Almost like a cartoon smoke silhouette of him just standing there 'how you doing?'
This is an extreme example, but I've met someone like this and this is an instant dealbreaker. No. NOOO! Just no. 😭
Someone who is ignorant or rude
Someone who is highly uncultured
Someone who doesn’t look after themselves
Someone who speaks negatively about other people, using crude names to describe large groups of people (they probably hate themselves and need therapy)
Someone who lacks accountability
Luckily my fiancé is none of these but when I started dating and figuring out these are some of the traits people have, I swore I wouldn’t date anyone with these traits.
Chicks that be taking shit way to personal, and feel disappearing, blocking or ghosting is acceptable behavior when they run across something they disagree with. Like wow. Children have that luxury, Adults well, if its what they want to do others, its their choice to act like children. We grow from engaging with others that have opposite beliefs, I dont want someone who dont want to grow..
Bad hygiene.
Crappy person.
Has or wants to have kids.
Ignorant, like a racist, sexist, etc.
Narcissist.
Psychotic when angry or can't manage their anger, like violence.
Religious, unless they have one that doesn't have any rules or anything.
Unloyal.
I don't like to be around ANYBODY that is a known liar and/or cheater. I don't like to be around people that use profanity every other word. I also have NO use for women that look like this ------
when someone isn't passionate about anything, whether it be a hobby, a sport, an interest or even their own health or well-being.
having been in a relationship where my partner was pretty lazy and didn't really care about learning new things or challenging themselves I found it as a real letdown. even more so, when they get ideas for us to do together like snowboarding which I had not ever tried, we bought all the gear and after 3-4 sessions she pretty much gave up on it. me being supportive didn't help because her effort wasn't in it.
this example applied to a few things tried over a span of a few years.. I found myself giving up a lot of things I enjoyed doing because she simply wasn't into it.
First off we need to be compatible. I don't really care if our political opinions are different. We should have the same values about family and we need to be a really good team that is excellent at making decisions together.
If you argue with me a lot and care too much about small shit. Complaining too much
Not having any kind of goals. It's a major turn off to me.
Abusive behaviour, bad attitude, hateful and prejudiced, not financially stable, poor hygiene, actively religious, has very strong political ideology or bias, no sense of humour, addiction, no circle of friends, low intellect, big tits and big ass, unhealthy lifestyle, overly concerned with her appearance.
Smoking. Why in the last 100 years, have the scientists not invented a cigarette that doesn't smell like a dead skunk's ass?
Pot is now legal in my state, and when I leave my apartment, the air is filled with the skunky smell of weed. But I love it, because it's a step up from a dead skunk's ass.
Smoking, drug use or even past drug use.
Cusses a lot.
Ever cheated on anyone.
Liar.
Too selfish.
slutty past.
Party girl or clubber.
Heavy drinker.
Ever done any nude work or sex work (stripper, nude model, cam model, prostitute).
Certain jobs or careers I wouldn't have dated: doctor, lawyer, police, military... etc.
Well all the obvious one's for starters (abusive, arrogant, toxic, cheater etc.). Other things include over 3 years older (or over 1 year younger), doesn't want kids, is unreliable or flaky, goes to church every Sunday (I grew up catholic and I can't go back), has irrational beliefs/doesn't believe in science (flat earth, anti vaxx, anti evolution etc.)
Laziness, drug use, lack of ambition, trying to change me too much ( a little is fine ), selfishness. One more thing. I don't trust people too much, so my the friends I have ate people I'd trust with my life. So it's important for me that my SO gets along with my friends.
1. Smoking, drinking, or drug use.
2. Any abusive or violent behaviour or the use of profanity.
3. Not being a natural born and fully heterosexual adult female.
4. Being a racist or feminist or supporting abortion.
5. Tattoos and body piercings.
6. Thongs and the like.
7. Not being a Christian.
8. Having an SO or not being completely over the ex.
9. Keeping secrets from me, not being transparent.
10. Anything to do with anal, oral, or period sex.
Rude
Abuse of any kind
Lacks common sense
Past in cheating
Has more then one kid
Has a bad past with dudes
Associates with jobless and felonious men
Talks about kids & marriage to early
Supports SJW's & their Behavior
Has a racist family
Watches reality tv as if it's real.
Support Fascist and communist behavior
Believes their is no God
Supports witchcraft or Satanism
Flat lips
Flat ass
A really stupid deal breaker i have is table manners!!! Other than that they should be polite, trustworthy and honest.
If they've ever lied, cheated, get angry at small situations, selfish, drugs, no license, not nice to others, racist etc it's a huge nope!!!
Entitlement/Princess Complex
Too politically charged on either side of the spectrum
Wants children
Unemployed
No License
Over 290 pounds (I am 165 pounds... if I can't wrap my arms around you entirely when cuddling it's just not happening)
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